this is completely different. ang responsibilidad sa itinanim mo sa paso, ay sa iyo at iyo lamang.hindi ka pipilitin nito na diligan mo s'ya araw-araw. lalong hindi biglang nagdedesisyon 'yung halaman na ayaw na n'ya sa iyo.
when you get to a certain age, you will see far more couples that started out with what everyone thought was a "perfect relationship" not working out.
however, people should make the best decisions they can at specific points in their lives. so it doesn't mean not trying. just that there's a tremendous level of risk attached to expecting people to change. for example, 'yung gwapong tamad (o maganda), kung aasahan mong magsusumikap pag naging kayo na... ang pusta ko ay sa hindi.