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[PHC_KATH]

My Father's Advice To Me When I Was Searching For A Wife...​

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My son, I will be very raw and sincere with you.

Do not worry about the size of a woman b.u.t.t.o.c.k or b.r.e.a.s.t but worry about the size of her heart and brain. Worry about the size of her love and endurance. Because after 5 or 10 years, it will not be about the bre_ast or but_tock.

As you can see, your mum now has a flat chest and almost flat but_tock but we still live together happily, I still love her and she still love me.

Be careful of a woman that loves money. I mean the woman that talks ‘every time’ about her hair, cloths, shoes, bags pan_ties and make-ups.
Marriage is not all about these things. Without make-up, cloths, shoes and pan_ties a good marriage will still stand but without love, no
marriage can stand.

When I got married to your mum, I didn’t have a car or house of my own. I was not even educated. But I had dreams and she appreciate and support me. Any woman that does not support your dream is not worth thinking-a-minute about.

There are women that will see your
dreams better than you, you are lucky if you find one, My son, open your ears very well, there is a kind of woman you should avoid, do not make a mistake to marry this kind of woman or you will regret it.

I mean a woman that always has bad things to say about everyone. If you see this kind of woman, run away.

One of the worst kind of woman you can marry is the one that complains about everything. If you buy this, she says you should have bought that, if you do this, she said you should have done that. Please stay away!

Most women enjoy talking but the one who talks for two hours and listen for two minutes is a potential ‘bomb’. Be wise

Be very careful of a pretending partner. A pretending woman is not hard to know. She will always know everything about everything, she will be careful. Just close your eyes and open your heart and you will see!

No woman is perfect. If you see a woman who believes in your dream , who respects you who is committed and who is not all about herself alone, then don’t let her go. But remember, you must not be a wayward man.

I have trained you! If you find a good woman but you are a bad man, you wont have a good marriage!

I won’t pick a wife for you but I have given you my advice. When you find her, bring her for my blessings.

May you find a woman that will increase you not decrease you...

 

[PHC_KATH]

sana may pang advice din for the gilrs

 

[Derealization]

Ohhhhh.... Ang galing nito!
Hindi ko alam to ah. Nice

 

[blackpanda7984]

sana may pang advice din for the gilrs

Find a man with big dreams but with a big heart. Someone who wants to do good for the society. Not all big dreams are good for society, find someone who do it for a cause not for his benefit alone but for many.

 

[PHC_KATH]

Find a man with big dreams but with a big heart. Someone who wants to do good for the society. Not all big dreams are good for society, find someone who do it for a cause not for his benefit alone but for many.

thank you.. appreciated

 

[sinner231_100]

MY MOTHER'S ADVICE TO ME WHEN I WAS SEARCHING FOR A HUSBAND...

My dear, let me share with you some honest and heartfelt advice.

Don’t focus solely on a man's appearance or his material possessions. Instead, pay attention to the size of his heart and mind. Look for the depth of his love and his capacity for commitment. In a few years, it won’t matter how tall he is or what kind of car he drives.

As you know, your father and I started with little, but our love and mutual respect have been the foundation of our life together. Don’t be swayed by superficial attributes or temporary things. The real strength of a marriage comes from love, understanding, and support.

Be cautious of a man who is obsessed with wealth and status. If he talks constantly about money, his job, or what he owns, that’s a red flag. A meaningful relationship isn’t built on material possessions, but on shared values and mutual support.

When I married your father, we had dreams but not much else. He had big plans, and I believed in him and supported him. A man who truly loves you will support your dreams and aspirations. Avoid those who are dismissive of your goals and ambitions.

Stay away from men who are always negative or overly critical. If he constantly complains or finds fault with everything, this negativity will wear you down over time.

Look for a man who communicates openly and listens as much as he speaks. A partner who talks for hours but listens for only minutes is unlikely to make a good spouse. Seek someone who values your opinions and feelings.

Beware of someone who pretends to be something they are not. Authenticity is key in a relationship. A genuine person will show you who they truly are, not a facade they think you want to see.

No man is perfect. If you find a partner who believes in your dreams, respects you, and is committed to your happiness, don’t let him go. But remember, the relationship must be mutual—be the partner you seek in return.

I won’t choose your partner for you, but I trust that you will find someone who enhances your life. When you do, bring him to me for my blessings.

May you find a partner who adds to your joy and growth, not diminishes it.

 

[PHC_KATH]

MY MOTHER'S ADVICE TO ME WHEN I WAS SEARCHING FOR A HUSBAND...

My dear, let me share with you some honest and heartfelt advice.

Don’t focus solely on a man's appearance or his material possessions. Instead, pay attention to the size of his heart and mind. Look for the depth of his love and his capacity for commitment. In a few years, it won’t matter how tall he is or what kind of car he drives.

As you know, your father and I started with little, but our love and mutual respect have been the foundation of our life together. Don’t be swayed by superficial attributes or temporary things. The real strength of a marriage comes from love, understanding, and support.

Be cautious of a man who is obsessed with wealth and status. If he talks constantly about money, his job, or what he owns, that’s a red flag. A meaningful relationship isn’t built on material possessions, but on shared values and mutual support.

When I married your father, we had dreams but not much else. He had big plans, and I believed in him and supported him. A man who truly loves you will support your dreams and aspirations. Avoid those who are dismissive of your goals and ambitions.

Stay away from men who are always negative or overly critical. If he constantly complains or finds fault with everything, this negativity will wear you down over time.

Look for a man who communicates openly and listens as much as he speaks. A partner who talks for hours but listens for only minutes is unlikely to make a good spouse. Seek someone who values your opinions and feelings.

Beware of someone who pretends to be something they are not. Authenticity is key in a relationship. A genuine person will show you who they truly are, not a facade they think you want to see.

No man is perfect. If you find a partner who believes in your dreams, respects you, and is committed to your happiness, don’t let him go. But remember, the relationship must be mutual—be the partner you seek in return.

I won’t choose your partner for you, but I trust that you will find someone who enhances your life. When you do, bring him to me for my blessings.

May you find a partner who adds to your joy and growth, not diminishes it.

nice and so much appreciated.. thank you.

 

[alist1986]

He he. Susmaryosep. As a +28-yr married man, may katotohanan nga yan - sa lalaki man o babae. Sa detalye lang nagkaiba. Natural lang na yung pisikal na aspeto ng pagsasama ay di na masyadong importante pagtagal ng panahon. Mag-adjust kayo parehas sa kung ano man yung darating. Kaya ang payo dyan is to know how to choose your "possible" partner well, para magkaroon kayo ng ideya sa inyong "possible" future - the safest advice! Ang inyong pakay naman bilang mag-asawa ay mas palalimin pa yung pag-ibig at pagsasama, magkatuwang sa inyong "common goals", pagbibigay ng emotional support at security, yung pagiging matinong "mayor de edad" habang tumatanda.

Kadalasan, malalaman nyo lang ang compatibility ninyo after a couple of years of living together. Ang tao kasi nagbabago rin. And nobody knows their exact future. Babala lang yan to give you an idea that marriage is not a perfect thing from start to finish. Dahan-dahang magbabago ang inyong pagkatao, mga kundisyon sa buhay, atbp. habang kayo'y magkasama. Kaya nakadapende yan sa inyong kakayahang magpasya para mapagpatuloy ang inyong marriage.