Depende kasi sa sitwasyon Paps... Depende rin sayo... Depende rin sa kung anong nararamdaman mo talaga sa kanya (sana totoo ka sa nararamdaman mo sa kanya hindi puros libog lang at cornhub nasa utak mo ha.. Hahahahaha... Hindi ko sinasabing sundin mo itong advise ko o tama ang advise ko sayo ha)... Ako kasi ang mentalidad ko is: Kapag mahal ko ang isang tao gusto ko yung nacha-challenge ako & para sa akin action speaks louder than voice este words... Hahahaha
Ako siguro mahigit isang milyon beses ng binasted ng mga babae sobra lang tlagang kulit ko.. Hahahaha Ganun kasi ako kapag mahal ko go lang kahit saan makarating, kailangang maramdaman nya yung buong pagmamahal ko...
TS, correct me if I am wrong, there are a lot of reasons kung bakit hindi nagka-gusto sa isang lalake ang isang babae or hindi ka gusto... (i.e: you didn't show proper value, naging overly emotional ka kaagad etc.)
TS start slow. Start small. It is a long and tough process. It takes months or even more. The goal is to build attraction and comfort over time. Dapat maging kumportable yung girl sa iyo. Be friendly without going the "friends" route. But be a "jerk" at times. Biruin mo. Galitin mo without being insulting or condescending. Think of how you make fun of your little sister, if you have one. The point is to elicit reactions or emotions from her.
Paps tsaka kelangan steady lang. Don't lose composure, no matter what. Kasi maraming beses na hindi ka nya kakausapin, hindi magrereply sa mga text/messages/calls mo at first. Kumbaga sa chess, tira lang, mahaba pa ang laban.
TS, it is also important to show your value, that you are a guy that she's worth liking...
In the end, if you built enough attraction and comfort, but it doesn't work out, di mo na yun problema di ba?... Sabi nga ng kanta ng Rivermaya "Kung ayaw mo wag mo", e di wag, bakit mo pipilitin! Hahahaha
It also won't hurt to look for other girls in the meantime kung talagang olats na olats na....
Pwede rin kasing tinetest ka lang TS, kalimitan kasi sa mga babae it puzzles us lalo ng mga manliligaw pahihirapan pag iisipin ka nila...
Pero if she is just dismissive of your efforts, perhaps she needs to see more of your efforts, for you to find her kiliti, and to get the right approach to her heart. You can start with friendship, but never fall into the 'friends zone', you are dead kapag ginawa mo yun
Lastly, get that "ayaw nya sayo" mentality - that is your first hurdle. Dapat ma-overcome mo yun at malaman mo kung bakit ayaw sayo nya? Ayaw nga ba talaga sayo? I mean diniretsa ka ba or sa text lang... Kailangan maovercome mo ito... Prove mo muna yung pagmamahal mo at kung wala talaga then siguro kailangan mo munang ihasa si Junjun... Try mong exercise na ito TS tuwing umaga at hapon baka makatulong sayo... Hahahaha Joke lang Paps... Hahahaha