💕 Dating/Love Mga Dahilan Bakit Mas Mabuti na Hindi Nalang Magkaanak Ngayon

[GoatPhomator666]

Genetic Predisposition - para sakin, ito ang pinakaconvincing na rason para hindi na magkaanak. Kung may heart disease, hypertension, diabetes or mga autoimmune diseases, mental illnesses, and etc. ang pamilya mo, mas mainaam nalang siguro na huwag ka na magkaanak. Ang mangyayari, maaari mo lang mapamana sa kanila yung sakit na nabanggit. Magdurusa lang sila sa buhay nila in the future, dagdag problema pa ang insurance or HMO kung wala sila nito.

Kasi hindi naman talaga natin pinili ang ipanganak sa mundo. Desisyon ng magulang natin kung bakit buhay tayo. At responsibilidad din nila kung ano man ang posibleng kahinatnan natin.

Wala naman talaga tayong magagawa about genetic diseases. Genetic is like a lottery. Kahit pa sabihin mong sa great grandfather mo pa yung huling sakit sa puso na nag occur sa inyong pamilya, maari pa rin itong mamana ng magiging anak mo. Kumbaga nakaencode na sa genetics mo yung sakit sa puso na yun, hindi lang dominant sayo, kaya wala sayo pero maaring maging dominant sa genes ng anak mo at magkaroon siya nito.

Minsan matatawag pa rin na "GIFT" ang hindi pagkakaroon ng anak. Sabi pa ng iba, they love their nonexistent children so much that they don't want them to experience a cruel life.

Marami pa akong mga reasons aside sa genetic predispositions. Pero sa next post ko nalang siguro.

 

[acer005]

Tama ka, malaking bagay ang genetic predisposition sa desisyon ng pagkakaroon ng anak. Responsibilidad ng magulang ang magiging buhay ng kanilang anak, kaya dapat itong pag-isipan nang mabuti. Marami rin ang naniniwala na minsan, ang hindi pagkakaroon ng anak ay paraan ng pagmamalasakit.

 

[keough]

mahirap ang buhay sa pinas eh , tapos ipapamana mo pa sa anak mo ung kahirapan mo haha , kawali talga

 

[GoatPhomator666]

mahirap ang buhay sa pinas eh , tapos ipapamana mo pa sa anak mo ung kahirapan mo haha , kawali talga

Tama. Selfishness na matatawag pag nanganak nang hindi iniisip ang bagay na yan.

 

[C E S S]

I understand the sentiment, pero what does it mean to love nonexistent children? Does that imply that having kids is like forcing them into life? Kasi, I believe every person’s experience is unique, and despite the struggles, some people see parenthood as a rewarding challenge. So, how do you reconcile the idea of loving someone who doesn’t exist?

 

[GoatPhomator666]

I understand the sentiment, pero what does it mean to love nonexistent children? Does that imply that having kids is like forcing them into life? Kasi, I believe every person’s experience is unique, and despite the struggles, some people see parenthood as a rewarding challenge. So, how do you reconcile the idea of loving someone who doesn’t exist?

It's still rational to love someone even before conception. Love doesn't need a tangible connection in order to be meaningful.

Kahit pa sabihin mo na every person is unique, kahit naghihirap sa buhay o may sakit na at ipagpipilitan talaga na manganak. Pero no matter how much love or security a parent provides, their child will inevitably experience loss, disappointment, illness, and possibly profound suffering. If life comes with unavoidable hardship, the most ethical choice is to prevent that suffering altogether.

 

[Kaplok Kaplok]

I think this is a misguided view despite being emotionally compelling. Societies will collapse kung lahat tayo maniniwala dito.

Lahat ng greatness, comfort at technological progress na naimbento ng tao ay gawa ng paghabol ng sangkatuhan sa goal to allow us to survive despite our imperfection. Kaya it will be wrong to attempt to make people perfect kasi you are essentially rejecting all these progress and the sacrifices that went into it.