💕 Dating/Love How do you forget the feelings you have to that one girl?

Para iwas ako sa conflict, pano ba aalisin sa isip ko na may nararamdaman ako sa kanya? I am 19 and she's 18 (college na pala kami btw) and after days and months of crushing on her (since first month of classes kami nagkakilala, August specifically and we formed a short friend group na di nagtagal but it was fun while it lasted), now ko na alam na may jowa na pala siya. But I think I want to start fresh and maybe magiging friends lang kami para di na ako magmumukhang t4ng4 in front of her. I don't want to keep the thought of being in love with her and I want the obsession to go away..
 
1. Limit interactions: Bawasan ang pag-uusap para hindi ka ma-remind ng feelings.
2. Stay busy: Focus sa hobbies, studies, o friends.
3. Set boundaries: Kung friends kayo, huwag mag-expect ng higit.
4. Accept reality: May jowa na siya, kaya move on na.
5. Be patient: Feelings fade over time. Give yourself space to heal.
 
1. Limit interactions: Bawasan ang pag-uusap para hindi ka ma-remind ng feelings.
2. Stay busy: Focus sa hobbies, studies, o friends.
3. Set boundaries: Kung friends kayo, huwag mag-expect ng higit.
4. Accept reality: May jowa na siya, kaya move on na.
5. Be patient: Feelings fade over time. Give yourself space to heal.
This! 💯💯💯
 
First advice:
No, take that feeling, thats valid. Tell it to her and once sabihin nya na di pwede kasi may jowa na. Makaka move on ka na. It can be a test to her loyalty. After your confession malalaman mo kung anong klaseng tao ba talaga sya. Feelings dont fade over time. It grew more if you suppress it. Need mo ng matinding rejection para may reason ka mag move on.

Second advice:
Malalaman mo if mahal mo talaga sya if di mo sya magamit sa pag lulu mo. If kaya mo naman mag lulu sa kanya, satisfy your lust, mawawala yung feelings mo sa kanya.
 
It's tough to "forget" feelings, but here's how to move on from a crush:
* Acknowledge and Accept:
* Feel your feelings: Don't suppress sadness, anger, or disappointment. Allow yourself to grieve the loss of the potential relationship.
* Journaling: Writing down your thoughts and emotions can help you process them.
* Limit Contact:
* Reduce interaction: Minimize contact with her on social media, in person, or through mutual friends.
* Unfollow/block: If necessary, unfollow her on social media to avoid constant reminders.
* Focus on Yourself:
* Reconnect with hobbies: Dive back into activities you enjoy, like sports, music, art, or reading.
* Spend time with loved ones: Surround yourself with supportive friends and family.
* Prioritize self-care: Exercise, eat healthy, get enough sleep, and engage in activities that bring you joy.
* Explore New Interests:
* Try something new: Take a class, join a club, or volunteer. This helps you meet new people and expand your horizons.
* Give Yourself Time:
* Be patient: Healing takes time. Don't put pressure on yourself to "get over it" quickly.
* Celebrate small victories: Acknowledge the progress you're making in moving on.
Important Note: If you're struggling to cope with these feelings, consider talking to a therapist or counselor. They can provide support and guidance as you navigate this emotional experience.
Disclaimer: This information is for general knowledge and guidance only.
It's important to remember that everyone experiences heartbreak differently. What works for one person may not work for another.
 
1. Limit interactions: Bawasan ang pag-uusap para hindi ka ma-remind ng feelings.
2. Stay busy: Focus sa hobbies, studies, o friends.
3. Set boundaries: Kung friends kayo, huwag mag-expect ng higit.
4. Accept reality: May jowa na siya, kaya move on na.
5. Be patient: Feelings fade over time. Give yourself space to heal.
Tbh, dapat number 1 dito yung number 4 haha. Pinakamahirap sa lahat yung acceptance, di ka talaga makakausad kung di tanggap ng buong pagkatao mo na di para kayo sa isa't isa.
 

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