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  • You’re not scared of breaking up with them

When I’m in a relationship with someone, the thing that scares me the most is the thought of disconnecting from them, the thought that maybe one day we may have to part ways (for one reason or the other) and then I start thinking of the trauma and pain that comes with it, but it’s a completely different scenario when it comes to flings and non-serious relationships. When you’re in a fling with someone, you don’t care about breaking up with them.
This is because there isn’t any real emotional connection between two people when they’re non-serious about each other and are just “having fun”. There is no deep emotional attachment, there are no romantic memories to be made, there’s literally nothing to miss when the person is gone because it was all very shallow to begin with. So the thought of breaking up with that person doesn’t really matter to you because the person doesn’t really matter to you either.

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  • You very easily make up excuses

When you’re in a non-serious relationship with someone, they’re never your top priority, you have other more important things to do and more important people to spend time with. So it’s very easy for you to cancel on them and tell them some lame excuse as to why you can’t meet, and they won’t really get upset about it either because they’d do the same to you in a heart beat.
When you’re truly in love with someone, you try your best to spend as much time with them as possible, you cherish each and every passing moment with them because you simply LOVE being around them and you can’t get enough of their presence. The case is the exact opposite in non-serious relationships. Sad, isn’t it? Well, not to a lot of people, apparently.

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  • You flirt with anyone, anytime

us relationship with someone, you aren’t really exclusive with them. As I said before, it’s called a “fling” because you’re literally just having fun with each other with no plans of having a future together, so you aren’t really bound to that person whether emotionally or physically. You will check out every other cute guy or hot girl you see and you will also find yourself being more flirtatious around people because you don’t have any responsibilities with the person you’re with.

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  • You don’t really care about meeting any expectations

We all have our own expectations when we’re in a relationship with someone, we have our own demands and requirements and we take them very seriously. Expectations are taken very seriously in every real relationship, as long as they are realistic expectations, we all have them.
This isn’t the case in non-serious relationships, because there is an absence of that emotional bond that actually makes a relationship real and pure. When you don’t really care about the other person that much, you don’t have that many expectations from them.It says it in the name – “non-serious”.

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  • You easily get bored with them

When you’re in a relationship where the emotional bond is completely absent, you can very easily get bored with the person. For example, I talk to my girlfriend for hours without even the slightest hint of boredom, because I have actual feelings for her which make me pay attention to what she’s saying.

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  • You dive deeper into a darker form of yourself

This is going to be the scariest part of the article, because this is where I stopped talking to my friend about this topic. When you’re in too many “non serious” relationships, you slowly become someone who can’t really have a serious relationship with anyone even if you tried your best to. Because you’ve been so accustomed to being this way that you don’t really know any other way to be with someone. When real life happens, a lot of real life problems come with them, and you’re just not used to the serious side of things because everything came so simple and easy for you. This is the largest blow of being in too many flings in your life, you lose the ability to actually fall in love or be happy in an actual relationship with someone, and that’s the saddest and scariest part of
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[Ako_ay]

Madam grabeh crush lang kita may patama ka kaagad sa akin. Hehehe!

 

[Yours]

Madam grabeh crush lang kita may patama ka kaagad sa akin. Hehehe!

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