Both I think, kung sakit ang paguusapan. But for me it's a coward move to say that, kasi in the first place dapat he/she should've let go earlier, pinatagal nya pa yung relationship tapos in the end sasabihin na "sana di na kita minahal" pfft. As for his/her next move, move on. You don't deserve ppl like that, walang balls to stand up for he/she believed or felt.