salvador, i hope you're still there somewhere para mabigyan kita ng ibang perspective sa kinakaharap mong conflict.
kung intresado ka magbasa, tignan mo kung makakita ka ng book ni Erik Erikson tungkol sa psychogical
development ng tao. So sabi nya, ang tao daw ay dumadaan sa stages ng psychological dev sa kanyang
buhay, and sa tanaw ko, sakto ka dun sa stage 5 ng dev na to. pati ung title mo dito sa thread mo, coincidence?
eto hiniram ko sandali
look, ang key question, dba ? = "Who am I?"
Eto sabi ng text:
This stage occurs during adolescence between the ages of approximately 12 and 18. During this stage, adolescents explore their independence and develop a sense of self.
O diba sakto, 17 ka yata ngayon and moreover, normal eto sa age mo ngayon, yung pag develop ng Ego Identity.
Sabi pa nya:
One of the main elements of Erikson's psychosocial stage theory is the development of ego identity. It is the conscious sense of self that we develop through social interaction, which is constantly changing due to new experiences and information we acquire in our daily interactions with others.
During the identity versus confusion stage, the conflict is centered on developing a personal identity. Successfully completing this stage leads to a strong sense of self that will
remain throughout life.
As they transition from childhood to adulthood, teens may begin to feel confused or insecure about themselves and how they fit into society. As they seek to establish a sense of self, teens may experiment with different roles, activities, and behaviors. According to Erikson, this is important to the process of forming a strong identity and developing a sense of direction in life.
Next, sabi ng text:
Teen behavior often seems unpredictable and impulsive,
but all of this is part of the process of finding a sense of
personal identity. Parents and family members continue to exert an influence on how teens feel about themselves, but outside forces also become particularly important during this time. Friends, social groups, schoolmates, societal trends, and even popular culture all play a role in shaping and forming an identity.
Those who receive
proper encouragement and reinforcement through personal exploration will emerge from this stage with a
strong sense of self and a feeling of independence and control. Those who remain unsure of their beliefs and desires will remain insecure and confused about themselves and the future.
So basically, need mong magkaroon ng proper encouragement para malagpasan mo ito and to come out na merong matinding sense ng independence at control.
Need mo ma resolve ang sense of conflict na ito sa pamamagitan ng pag commit sa isang partikular na identity.
This might involve committing to a career path, deciding what social groups to associate with and even developing a sense of personal style.
Those who are successful, develop fidelity, a psychological virtue characterized by the ability to relate to others and form genuine relationships.
eto ang kasunod na text:
So, what happens to those
who do not end up successfully forming an identity at this point in development?
Kids who are not allowed to explore and test out different identities might be left with what Erikson referred to as role confusion. These individuals are not sure who they are or what they like. They tend to drift from one job or relationship to another, never really sure what they want to do with their lives. Instead of feeling a sense of personal cohesiveness, they are left feeling disappointed and confused about their place in life.
So relax ka lang, time ito ng exploration, experience mo yung mga gusto mo gawin, kung saan ka masaya, pero dapat gawin mo ito na may goal. na habang hinahanap mo yung kung saan ka masaya as your identity, pinapahalagahan mo rin yung path o kung saan ka patungo. mareresolve lahat to, dasal, tulong ng mga parents, kaibigan, relationship, atibapa.So cool ka lang dahil marami naka suporta sa iyo, sa mga artistic ventures mo, andito lang kami, ako kahit nde mo kilala personally, pede ako sandalan pang moral support hanggang maihanap mo kapayapaan nang sarili mo.
And lastly, importanteng yugto ng buhay mo ito dahil inihahanda ka na sa susunod na stage6, yung intimacy vs isolation. dapat malagpasan mo itong stage5 na ito with flying colors. Okay? Peace out.
Fly butterfly, the world is waiting.
PH
