💕 Dating/Love My road to moving on? or waiting? updated

[psalatan]

I've been a member of this forum for quite sometime and now and a lot has happened and decided to start this thread and hopefully update my progress here as well.

Back in 2017 me and my girlfriend of 3 years has been on and off. whenever we have misunderstandings, she always challenge me of a breakup. Like that is the only solution with our problem. Up until to the point that her mom let her choose, is it me or her mom will leave her with her 2 girls away.

In December she decided to leave me. After a few days she was different and she was the one who created a way for us to be back together which I very cherished since she never have done that in our relationship.

Then this late January, Her dad who just came back from abroad talked to me face to face. He wanted me to be out of her life. He did that since he offered his daughter to just go work abroad so that she can provide for her children. As a parent herself I understand that she has to take this opportunity to do just that. Which I can't blame her.

During the conversation with her father, let's say na "minaliit" talaga niya ako.

Me and my girlfriend talked about it and we decided to keep our relation on hold. I know this will be hard and long for us if we think that we can still be together lets say for many years and expect that we will still be together.

Since I love her and I know she loves my as well. We kept of that promise (or I'll say my promise) that time will come that we will be back together BETTER and we can finally make our relationship work for the second time.

For now it is difficult for me everyday honestly. But part of me is motivated to work hard and make a way for me to work abroad as well so I can be together with my girl while working abroad.

Itutuloy sa progress nag buhay ko...

 

[Frustrated Burger]

Ituloy mo lang brad

 

[RED_94]

Goodluck ts. Do what you think is the best for the both of you.

 

[psalatan]

Ituloy mo lang brad

for now oo. yun yung goal ko. though a lot of people already said na mahirap yon gusto ko gawin.

But it will be worth it if the outcome is yung hinahangad ko.

 

[psalatan]

Goodluck ts. Do what you think is the best for the both of you.

Thanks papi.... yes sa ngayon yun talaga balak ko.

 

[Futility]

Swerte nung babae...
Ey, don't give up on your relationship.
Magiging LDR lang naman kayo.
As long as may trust kayo sa isa't-isa magwo-work-out yan.
Constant communication din; kailangan yun.

 

[RED_94]

Thanks papi.... yes sa ngayon yun talaga balak ko.

But still paps expect for the worse pa din para kahit papano prepared ka sa mga mangyayari.

 

[psalatan]

But still paps expect for the worse pa din para kahit papano prepared ka sa mga mangyayari.

yes. masakit man.. andun din.. ayoko lang matapos ng di ako sure ginawa ko lahat.

 

[RED_94]

yes. masakit man.. andun din.. ayoko lang matapos ng di ako sure ginawa ko lahat.

Tama paps ang importante is wala kang pinagsisihan sa huli. Goodluck ts!

 

[PHC-Hershey]

Salute ts. Di mo ko kasing motivated sa relasyon, magkaroon lang ng sunod sunod na problema, mabilis ako umayaw

 

[onoka]

Go boss. Prove it..

 

[psalatan]

Salute ts. Di mo ko kasing motivated sa relasyon, magkaroon lang ng sunod sunod na problema, mabilis ako umayaw

madami din ganon. pero if you are on the point of your life na ang hirap ng paulit ulit ng start ng relationship. learn to adapt and fight na

 

[psalatan]

Go boss. Prove it..

I will. Thanks for your support! haha

 

[PHC-Hershey]

madami din ganon. pero if you are on the point of your life na ang hirap ng paulit ulit ng start ng relationship. learn to adapt and fight na

Siguro ts sa mga susunod pa, bata pa naman ako, enjoy life muna hahaha. Basta goodluck sayo, kung ano man maging resulta atleast ginawa mo yung magagawa mo

 

[psalatan]

Siguro ts sa mga susunod pa, bata pa naman ako, enjoy life muna hahaha. Basta goodluck sayo, kung ano man maging resulta atleast ginawa mo yung magagawa mo

exactly. wala ako balak mag giveup without doing everything na ireregret ko sa huli.

 

[Frustrated Burger]

exactly. wala ako balak mag giveup without doing everything na ireregret ko sa huli.

Ts ipagpatuloy mo lang yan sayang ang nasimulan, nakikita ko pati na mabuti kang tao
Sana'y palarin ka ts

 

[Shentaro]

Long distance relationship is so hard for a couple who did'nt give importance to a memory and hardship's they shared together. But for a couple who determined to wait the perfect time and understand each other is the most strongest bond that they shared. Ts wag kang papatalo sa pagsubok! Kung determinado bawat isa sa inyo wlang imposible kahit sino pa humarang sa relasyon nyu. Isa pa may mga anak na kayu and it symbolized your true loved. Basta Aja lang! Hehehe

 

[psalatan]

Ts ipagpatuloy mo lang yan sayang ang nasimulan, nakikita ko pati na mabuti kang tao
Sana'y palarin ka ts

I hope I can believe you. I was never a good partner I think as I have never established the most important thing which is the to have a good relationship with my GF's 2 daughters. Andun na sana kami sa point na hahabulin namon kaso ngintervene yung dad niya.

 

[psalatan]

Long distance relationship is so hard for a couple who did'nt give importance to a memory and hardship's they shared together. But for a couple who determined to wait the perfect time and understand each other is the most strongest bond that they shared. Ts wag kang papatalo sa pagsubok! Kung determinado bawat isa sa inyo wlang imposible kahit sino pa humarang sa relasyon nyu. Isa pa may mga anak na kayu and it symbolized your true loved. Basta Aja lang! Hehehe

actually her 2 daughters is from a previous failed relationship of hers..

 

[Shentaro]

actually her 2 daughters is from a previous failed relationship of hers..

Wow buti naman at pinanghawakan mo yung responsibilad bilang ama at asawa....i Salute you sir!!