💕 Dating/Love Serious advice

[ediwowowow1611]

Hi,

I meet this girl maybe last 3 weeks ago na and we already had the thing, and may past experience siya na sinasaktan siya ng ex niya and cheating based sa story niya. I just need advice about 1 thing nag ooverthink kasi ako kasi may connection pa siya sa ex niya, na comeup ko na to na cut connections sa ex niya and nakita ko "still" meron parin. Gusto ko ecome up to and see their conversation myself and ask sana na eblock yung ex niya. Okay lang ba yun? Actually in ligawan process palang pero we already had the thing fast phase siya. I wanted to pursue her with pure intention but laging may doubts and minsan tama rin mga doubts ko I just need advice with this kind of set up. May part na nirerebound niya lang ako sa thoughts ko, should I trust her and wag ko na i come up or come up ko to clear things? Na come up ko na to sakanya ang sagot niya is may nangyari na satin ganito ganyan. But gusto ko e cut off niya na yung past niya and focus sa present, gusto ko wala na siysng connection sa ex niya since about nga sa nangyari between them, I don't want to say that I wanted to become a better person to her, I told her that and add na just see it for yourself and judge me in the long run.

 

[Copper7]

Kung may communication pa sila sa ex nya may feelings payan 100% wag mo sabihan e block kung hindi pa kayu dinpinde na. Sayu kung susugal ka gnayng babae kung gusto mo talaga yang babae ipagpatuloy mo piro ma hirap yan madaming away yan

 

[LubiLubiDaLoca]

Yun lang.

 

[MikeCONCEPT]

Tama si Copper if may connection pa siya sa ex, my feelings pa yan.
Kung ako sa sitwasyon mo, Realtalkshit to pre. Pag patuloy mo lang ung relasyon niyo, cantontin mo lang ng cantontin lagi. Habang kayo pa, maghanap kana ng iba para if ever na maghiwalay kayo may reserba kana agad at di ka na masasaktan ng sobra.

 

[ediwowowow1611]

Tama si Copper if may connection pa siya sa ex, my feelings pa yan.
Kung ako sa sitwasyon mo, Realtalkshit to pre. Pag patuloy mo lang ung relasyon niyo, cantontin mo lang ng cantontin lagi. Habang kayo pa, maghanap kana ng iba para if ever na maghiwalay kayo may reserba kana agad at di ka na masasaktan ng sobra.

Actually tol never to sumagi sa isip ko, date to marry guy kasi ako and sa totoo lang hirap narin talaga maging pure sa panahon ngayon. And magpapass ako sa suggestion mo.

 

[RicardoooMilosss]

kung nag aalangan ka. tas tama naman lahat ng iniisip mo. let go. mahirap yan, mag cocommit ka pero may communication sila. lalo di mo pa sya kasama palagi.

 

[_wOOf-fOOw_]

red flag agad yan, sabi mo nga pure yung intention mo. Hanap ka na lang ng nakamove on na. Kesa naman lagi ka magdoubt mahirap yan.
pero kung di pure intention mo birahin mo lang ng birahin.

 

[Kakashi hatake 085678]

pero kung di pure intention mo birahin mo lang ng birahin.

Ano klaseng "birahin" Lods


Hahahaha

 

[trigunther]

Actually tol never to sumagi sa isip ko, date to marry guy kasi ako and sa totoo lang hirap narin talaga maging pure sa panahon ngayon. And magpapass ako sa suggestion mo.

yan ang maganda kaso parang hindi pa ready si girl para sa intention mo. tsaka isa pa 3 weeks palang kayong mag ka kilala masyado pang mababaw yan compare sa ex nya ,so ang siste kung hindi nya kayang i block ang ex nya para sa iyo meaning hindi ikaw ang priority nya taliwas sa gustong mong maging para sa kanya baka nga palipas oras ka lang nya run while u can.

 

[alist1986]

Susmaryosep iho. Common sense ang gamitn mo. Kung may gusto ka talaga sa isang babae (kahit ano pa yang sinabi mo), kilalanin at kilatisin mo muna siya since wala namang mawawala sa'yo kundi pag-aksaya sa oras kung hindi man umayon sa pabor mo. Dyan mo kasi malalaman kung she is right for you or not. Ganyan naman ang panliligaw, walang kasiguruhan lalo pa kung may "red flags" yung napili mo he he. Pero you need to take a risk to find out what happens next, then decide. At least you tried. Walang pinagkaiba rin yan sa side ng babae.

Kung sigurista ka at nag-aalangan, end your pursuit and find another. Simple. Kaya nga may may kasabihang: "There are many fishes in the world". Ang payo ko is just the basics, at maaaring di mo tanggap at ng iba dahil iba-iba tayo ng mode of thinking. Ikaw kasi ang nakakaalam ng "full data" ng iyong karanasan sa babaeng napupusuan mo.

 

[ediwowowow1611]

Susmaryosep iho. Common sense ang gamitn mo. Kung may gusto ka talaga sa isang babae (kahit ano pa yang sinabi mo), kilalanin at kilatisin mo muna siya since wala namang mawawala sa'yo kundi pag-aksaya sa oras kung hindi man umayon sa pabor mo. Dyan mo kasi malalaman kung she is right for you or not. Ganyan naman ang panliligaw, walang kasiguruhan lalo pa kung may "red flags" yung napili mo he he. Pero you need to take a risk to find out what happens next, then decide. At least you tried. Walang pinagkaiba rin yan sa side ng babae.

Kung sigurista ka at nag-aalangan, end your pursuit and find another. Simple. Kaya nga may may kasabihang: "There are many fishes in the world". Ang payo ko is just the basics, at maaaring di mo tanggap at ng iba dahil iba-iba tayo ng mode of thinking. Ikaw kasi ang nakakaalam ng "full data" ng iyong karanasan sa babaeng napupusuan mo.

Late kana po ng advice hahahaha, pero I appreciate it. Cool off kami now hahahhaa

 

[alist1986]

Late kana po ng advice hahahaha, pero I appreciate it. Cool off kami now hahahhaa

Good! You made a decision. Yan yung iniintay ko he he.Ganyan din ako noong una, pero natutunan ko yang harapin afterwards. May time pa nga akong naging wild dahil sa overconfidence he he.
Ang payo ko lang sa similar cases is just be brave to explore endless possibilities, whether it's a failure or not. Mas profitable yan sa personal growth ninyo through your actual experiences. The more, the better. You'll learn to "DIY" with ease later on. Applicable yang sinabi ko sa lahat ng bagay.
Though hindi ko nilalahat. Normal lang maging unsure kung anong gagawin sa maagang pakikipagrelasyon o kahit sa late bloomers. Yung iba nga dahil sa peer pressure sa edad o kahit yung tawag ng kanilang "hormonal impulses" (pagnanasa) ay napipilitan lang makipag-relasyon kahit di pa handa. At dahil nga kulang sa karanasan ay di sila makapag-isip ng tamang paraan sa hamon ng kanilang emosyon. Yung inyong kakayang mag-control sa emosyon at pagawa ng desisyon ang tangi ninyong gamit para malusutan kung anuman ang inyong hinaharap. Kapag di ninyo natutunan yan, dadalhin ninyo rin yan sa inyong pagtanda. There's a science for everything, and this you will learn in time.
May pagka-nerd ako magsalita dahil sa edad at idol ko rin si Albert Einstein he he. Pinilit kong tuparin yang sampung famous lines nya para maging handa.

1. Human intelligence...

"We have been endowed with just enough intelligence to be able to see clearly just how utterly inadequate that intelligence is when confronted with what exists. If this humility could be imparted to everybody, the world of human endeavours would become more appealing."

2. … and stupidity

“Fear or stupidity has always been the basis of most human actions.”

3. Intuition

“I believe in intuitions and inspirations... I sometimes feel that I am right. I do not know that I am.”

4. Persistence

“I still struggle with the same problems as ten years ago. I succeed in small matters but the real goal remains unattainable, even though it sometimes seems palpably close. It is hard, yet rewarding: hard because the goal is beyond my abilities, but rewarding because it makes one oblivious to the distractions of everyday life.”

5. Success

“Try not to become a man of success. Rather become a man of value.”

6. Love

"Love brings much happiness, much more so than pining for someone brings pain."

7. Society and the individual

“Valuable achievement can sprout from human society only when it is sufficiently loosened to make possible the free development of an individual's abilities.”

8. Curiosity

“The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own reason for existing. One cannot help but be in awe when one contemplates the mysteries of eternity, of life, of the marvellous structure of reality. It is enough if one tries to comprehend only a little of this mystery every day.”

9. Science

“All of science is nothing more than the refinement of everyday thinking.”

10. Imagination

“Imagination is more important than knowledge. Knowledge is limited. Imagination circles the world.”

 

[ediwowowow1611]

Good! You made a decision. Yan yung iniintay ko he he.Ganyan din ako noong una, pero natutunan ko yang harapin afterwards. May time pa nga akong naging wild dahil sa overconfidence he he.
Ang payo ko lang sa similar cases is just be brave to explore endless possibilities, whether it's a failure or not. Mas profitable yan sa personal growth ninyo through your actual experiences. The more, the better. You'll learn to "DIY" with ease later on. Applicable yang sinabi ko sa lahat ng bagay.
Though hindi ko nilalahat. Normal lang maging unsure kung anong gagawin sa maagang pakikipagrelasyon o kahit sa late bloomers. Yung iba nga dahil sa peer pressure sa edad o kahit yung tawag ng kanilang "hormonal impulses" (pagnanasa) ay napipilitan lang makipag-relasyon kahit di pa handa. At dahil nga kulang sa karanasan ay di sila makapag-isip ng tamang paraan sa hamon ng kanilang emosyon. Yung inyong kakayang mag-control sa emosyon at pagawa ng desisyon ang tangi ninyong gamit para malusutan kung anuman ang inyong hinaharap. Kapag di ninyo natutunan yan, dadalhin ninyo rin yan sa inyong pagtanda. There's a science for everything, and this you will learn in time.
May pagka-nerd ako magsalita dahil sa edad at idol ko rin si Albert Einstein he he. Pinilit kong tuparin yang sampung famous lines nya para maging handa.

1. Human intelligence...

"We have been endowed with just enough intelligence to be able to see clearly just how utterly inadequate that intelligence is when confronted with what exists. If this humility could be imparted to everybody, the world of human endeavours would become more appealing."

2. … and stupidity

“Fear or stupidity has always been the basis of most human actions.”

3. Intuition

“I believe in intuitions and inspirations... I sometimes feel that I am right. I do not know that I am.”

4. Persistence

“I still struggle with the same problems as ten years ago. I succeed in small matters but the real goal remains unattainable, even though it sometimes seems palpably close. It is hard, yet rewarding: hard because the goal is beyond my abilities, but rewarding because it makes one oblivious to the distractions of everyday life.”

5. Success

“Try not to become a man of success. Rather become a man of value.”

6. Love

"Love brings much happiness, much more so than pining for someone brings pain."

7. Society and the individual

“Valuable achievement can sprout from human society only when it is sufficiently loosened to make possible the free development of an individual's abilities.”

8. Curiosity

“The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own reason for existing. One cannot help but be in awe when one contemplates the mysteries of eternity, of life, of the marvellous structure of reality. It is enough if one tries to comprehend only a little of this mystery every day.”

9. Science

“All of science is nothing more than the refinement of everyday thinking.”

10. Imagination

“Imagination is more important than knowledge. Knowledge is limited. Imagination circles the world.”

Thank you for this boss <3

 

[Semisonic]

Date to marry type of guy ka pala with pure intentions pero dinale mo agad within 3 weeks.

 

[C E S S]

Ikaw na mismo nag-open up na gusto mo na i-cut off yung ex, and she’s still holding on, parang hindi siya fully into you. If she's serious about you, she’s willing to cut ties lalo na kung toxic yung ex. Dapat kusa nyang gagawin yon without you asking, hindi pwedeng ikaw lang 'yung nagpu-push for a clean slate tapos siya, clingy pa sa nakaraan. Need mo malaman kung gaano siya ka-willing to leave that baggage behind. Kasi kung di niya kayang mag-let go, you’ll always have that in the back of your mind. Otherwise, baka tama nga, rebound ka lang, and ginagamit ka para mag-move on.

 

[ediwowowow1611]

Date to marry type of guy ka pala with pure intentions pero dinale mo agad within 3 weeks.

Hahahahah, siya po nag initiate and mas may experience siya sa akin ayaw ko lang madidisappoint siya in terms of confidence. Yun yung thought ko that time.

 

[_wOOf-fOOw_]

Date to marry type of guy ka pala with pure intentions pero dinale mo agad within 3 weeks.

Date to MERRY-GO-ROUND ata boss. sinakyan agad haha

 

[ImNewBie]

negative yan paps hindi pa nakakamove on yan at lalong hindi makakmove on kasi may connection pa sila ng ex nya. wag ka masyado mag pokus dyan if my work ka mas mabuting doon mo ipokus kesa mag overthink ka palagi about that girl and her ex. hindi porket pinatikim ka nya eh pure ung intension nya malay mo namiss nya ung gnun sa ex nya at dahil wala na sila sayo nlng. mahirap nyan kung mabuntis mo agad tapos ending bago pla sila mag hiwalay eh may nangyari pa sa knila kya mas mag overthink ka malala nyan kung sayo b tlga un .