💕 Dating/Love Take the risk or take it away? i need matured opinion out there please seryoso po ang sitwasyon nato.

[akimotoyoshiru]

1 mon na po kami ngayon and yah, sya mismo nag aalis ng mga mga fear ko at mga sudden thoughts na baka ganito baka ganyan, fully assurance, yung sabi niyo na wag lokohin un din ang tanging hiling nya sakin which is diko nmn gagawin

the same situation with you, but I was the partner of the girl, na iniwan ako at nakipagharotan sa iba, chat dito chat duon, emote dito emote duon, post sa fb status, tiktok, and other social media, partida block pa ako lahat nyan. By the way I read the whole story, sakto fit 99% yan ang feelings nya, RIdes every RD, date - even my TL and teammates from work, saw them dating (you?) She broke up with me around last week feb, and march, I was absent almost the whole month sa work, in the middle of march she broke up with me without any reason. Tried to reached her out but she won't and would not talk to me anymore, she's posting proudly that she had a crush but 50/50 gusto nya ang guy pero the guy is hesitant. I was watching her in silent, and myself burning up -- to ashes. Kasi may ka minggle na sya, di na sya bored, which is by the way basta broken galing - girls just need attention. chinachat lahat kahit foodpanda delivery... kinding aside. Swak na swak talaga ang story nyo sa amin ng partner ko. Which is sadly, okay na sana but were married.


Can you pm me by any chance? May tanong lang ako personal.

 

[Life_Exists_Beyond_Death]

the same situation with you, but I was the partner of the girl, na iniwan ako at nakipagharotan sa iba, chat dito chat duon, emote dito emote duon, post sa fb status, tiktok, and other social media, partida block pa ako lahat nyan. By the way I read the whole story, sakto fit 99% yan ang feelings nya, RIdes every RD, date - even my TL and teammates from work, saw them dating (you?) She broke up with me around last week feb, and march, I was absent almost the whole month sa work, in the middle of march she broke up with me without any reason. Tried to reached her out but she won't and would not talk to me anymore, she's posting proudly that she had a crush but 50/50 gusto nya ang guy pero the guy is hesitant. I was watching her in silent, and myself burning up -- to ashes. Kasi may ka minggle na sya, di na sya bored, which is by the way basta broken galing - girls just need attention. chinachat lahat kahit foodpanda delivery... kinding aside. Swak na swak talaga ang story nyo sa amin ng partner ko. Which is sadly, okay na sana but were married.


Can you pm me by any chance? May tanong lang ako personal.

sure sir ? maam? pede po tayo mag usap

 

[akimotoyoshiru]

pm you po.

 

[alist1986]

1 mon na po kami ngayon and yah, sya mismo nag aalis ng mga mga fear ko at mga sudden thoughts na baka ganito baka ganyan, fully assurance, yung sabi niyo na wag lokohin un din ang tanging hiling nya sakin which is diko nmn gagawin.

Sorry at nahuli na ako sa iyong cascading events sa thread he he. Medyo natagalan akong basahin for my final assessment.
Ang tangi ko lang masasabi sa'yo, lagi mong tandaan na "life is full of risks" na pwede mong pasukin o iwasan. Pinasok mo yan, panagutan mo. Kahit pa may BF, kaka-breakup pa lang o kung ano pang kundisyon, as long as ginusto mo siyang mahalin and her too, both of you should accept the inevitable and strong enough to handle any situation thereafter. Love has no boundaries, as most say. But not all have the courage to accept this due to "red flags", "challenges", etc. Yung dynamics ng relationships ay maraming sanga na iba-iba ang nagiging landas sa inyong paglalakbay.
Kaya ang target mo na lang is to preserve your relationship as long as it's there. I assume you are happy now, because you did your part. Yung tamang komunikasyon ang naging advantage ninyong dalawa, thru your patience, and unconditional love, as in your case too. Am I right? Kayo lang dalawa ang nakakaalam niyan sa mga susunod ninyong kabanata sa buhay he he.

 

[Life_Exists_Beyond_Death]

Sorry at nahuli na ako sa iyong cascading events sa thread he he. Medyo natagalan akong basahin for my final assessment.
Ang tangi ko lang masasabi sa'yo, lagi mong tandaan na "life is full of risks" na pwede mong pasukin o iwasan. Pinasok mo yan, panagutan mo. Kahit pa may BF, kaka-breakup pa lang o kung ano pang kundisyon, as long as ginusto mo siyang mahalin and her too, both of you should accept the inevitable and strong enough to handle any situation thereafter. Love has no boundaries, as most say. But not all have the courage to accept this due to "red flags", "challenges", etc. Yung dynamics ng relationships ay maraming sanga na iba-iba ang nagiging landas sa inyong paglalakbay.
Kaya ang target mo na lang is to preserve your relationship as long as it's there. I assume you are happy now, because you did your part. Yung tamang komunikasyon ang naging advantage ninyong dalawa, thru your patience, and unconditional love, as in your case too. Am I right? Kayo lang dalawa ang nakakaalam niyan sa mga susunod ninyong kabanata sa buhay he he.

this is noted sir, masaya po ako sa kanya at sya din naman po, yung tipong palagi kang na mimiss, at pag magkikita kami she kiss me even on public, like ang proud nya at pinag mamalake pa nya ako sa iba.


mag 2months na kami pero i always tell her na, hindi na niya kelangan bilangin yon,
hindi na, lahat ng bagay na deserve niya lahat ng makakapag pasaya sa kanya, assignment kona yon. wala ng ipag aalala.

 

[alist1986]

this is noted sir, masaya po ako sa kanya at sya din naman po, yung tipong palagi kang na mimiss, at pag magkikita kami she kiss me even on public, like ang proud nya at pinag mamalake pa nya ako sa iba.


mag 2months na kami pero i always tell her na, hindi na niya kelangan bilangin yon,
hindi na, lahat ng bagay na deserve niya lahat ng makakapag pasaya sa kanya, assignment kona yon. wala ng ipag aalala.

He he. Ang huling masasabi ko lang, you surpassed the test. Just keep it that way.
And you're correct. You don't count the times when you're together. It's the good memories that count.

 

[Raijin_003]

mahalin mo lang ng walang kapalit walang what if, pag nagmahal ka handa kadin dapat masaktan

 

[Dys]

kamusta na kayo ts

 

[reyman19]

ayun update pala dito TS

 

[Meowshi]

Update po nabasa ko rin to nung bagong post molang ehshe

 

[acer005]

Takot mong masaktan ay valid, pero mahalaga rin na malaman mo kung ano talaga ang gusto mo. Kung seryoso ka sa kanya, pag-usapan niyo nang maayos kung saan kayo patungo. Huwag hayaang overthinking ang magdikta—mas mabuting harapin nang direkta kaysa matakot sa bagay na di pa nangyayari.

 

[Tsukuyomi]

Nagrerelapse na ata si TS

 

[Life_Exists_Beyond_Death]

kamusta na kayo ts

Update po nabasa ko rin to nung bagong post molang ehshe

ayun update pala dito TS

Nagrerelapse na ata si TS

Mag One Year napo kami this July 7 2025 and lahat po nung nag advice is naka tulong po tlga planning for wedding din July 7 sa 1st anniv at mag kasama pa kami sa work Thankyou po

 

[Tsukuyomi]

Mag One Year napo kami this July 7 2025 and lahat po nung nag advice is naka tulong po tlga planning for wedding din July 7 sa 1st anniv at mag kasama pa kami sa work Thankyou po

congrats ts, happy ending pala kaya di ka na nagupdate dito hahaha

 

[Meowshi]

Mag One Year napo kami this July 7 2025 and lahat po nung nag advice is naka tulong po tlga planning for wedding din July 7 sa 1st anniv at mag kasama pa kami sa work Thankyou po

Congrats po!! from overthink to overcome char ahaha ️️️