PHLife_Exists_Beyond_Death
Fanatic
wag mo nmn ako pinag ooverthink bout dyan paps, pag panaman nag ggala kami inaabot kami ng madaling araw which is sa bahay na nila ako natutulog at mag kalapit pa kami, hahaha saka paps 3 months p lng kami
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💕 Dating/Love Take the risk or take it away? i need matured opinion out there please seryoso po ang sitwasyon nato.
Life_Exists_Beyond_Death
Fanatic
what u mean ba na dipako sure?
I'll make it short and simple.
Know the risk, give your best and be pure with intention but do not give everything. There is and will always is, a chance that you're being made as her rebound to lessen the pain she's feeling. I've been there. I was there. All looks true. All feels sincere. But then, fast as blink of an eye, told me she wants to be with her ex again and I let her but in Condition of not giving up our relationship. Nearing our first anniv, we became LDR, and yes. The song ERE explains it all and up until now, almost a year of breakup. The song Ibong Adarna ni FlowG explains what I am and what I became because of the pain.
Take risk but never give your last card or you'll be broken forever, emotionally, mentally and physically .
Know the risk, give your best and be pure with intention but do not give everything. There is and will always is, a chance that you're being made as her rebound to lessen the pain she's feeling. I've been there. I was there. All looks true. All feels sincere. But then, fast as blink of an eye, told me she wants to be with her ex again and I let her but in Condition of not giving up our relationship. Nearing our first anniv, we became LDR, and yes. The song ERE explains it all and up until now, almost a year of breakup. The song Ibong Adarna ni FlowG explains what I am and what I became because of the pain.
Take risk but never give your last card or you'll be broken forever, emotionally, mentally and physically .
Life_Exists_Beyond_Death
Fanatic
thanks par, lagi kotong babasahin to, takot nadin ako mag take e, until now sumasakay lang ako, baka dumating sa point, na sanay lang sya na wala ung ex nya, at sakin nya un ginagawa, mahirap maging rebound, mapapa ERE talaga. lalot may memories na kaming dalawa, like we are couple na. at nakikilala nadin sya ng ibang relatives ko, then biglang maiiba ang ikot ng mundo. sayang ung halik ko hahha
Buti sayo ganyang stage palang. The one I had, we did things and I know you know what I mean "things", which I only do if I truly love the one, and I mean real deal, I don't S** just for fun and/or for Lust. I fell deep, I had relapse. I was free from addiction and survived it for 7 years. But then, yeah. My life got crushed and I am back from being a shittard of a hell, stuck in that time and can't move on.
sa tingin ko malungkot lang sya kaya naghahanap sya ng comfort sayo. Di ako naniniwalang naka move on na yan. Kung nag iinvest kana ng time at effort baka its time rin cguro para tanungin mo sya sa mga bagay2. paglilinaw ba. 50/50 yan pre pero i know kung ano man sagot nya ay ihanda mo na sarili mo.
Life_Exists_Beyond_Death
Fanatic
Par we act like couple na, and i know na, sinasagot na nya ako, hindi na nya ako pinanliligaw kasi buong buo ung trust nya saken na hindi ko gagawin ung same thing sa past nya, ever since mag ka kilala na kami nong 2021
Bloo Pororo
Fanatic
madalas babae pag galing broken heart just looking for attentions, at the same time open ang guard nyan, pwede kang pumasok kung gusto mo. pero bear nthe consequence kase nga hindi sya totally healed. yon lang...
pero ako nag risk ako sa ganyan, same almost 6 years kame mag kakilala and 2years din kame hindi nag usap then nagkamustahan one time and nag open sya saken i think wala pang 6 months na break up nya but then eto gf ko na sya, just talked to her kung anong intensyon mo sa kanya sabihin mo. kesa walang kasiguraduhan. kung mahal mo ilaban mo. kung hindi sayo let her go bro madami pa jan.
pero ako nag risk ako sa ganyan, same almost 6 years kame mag kakilala and 2years din kame hindi nag usap then nagkamustahan one time and nag open sya saken i think wala pang 6 months na break up nya but then eto gf ko na sya, just talked to her kung anong intensyon mo sa kanya sabihin mo. kesa walang kasiguraduhan. kung mahal mo ilaban mo. kung hindi sayo let her go bro madami pa jan.
Life_Exists_Beyond_Death
Fanatic
sa totoo lang par, 50/50 padin ako haha, just reciprocating lang muna, sorry to say nag iingat lang din akong masaktan, since dipa nya sinasabe kung ano kami nung tanungin ko sya kung ano nga ba kami dahil sa mga actions namin na parang mag jowa na
paulplatypus
Grasshopper
Eto tanong ko?.. Imagine seconhand na cellphone na may hidden issue.. Bibilhin mo ? Or worth it kaya?
Kaplok Kaplok
Forum Guru
Eto siguro mga bagay na tanong mo sa isip mo;
Possible bang panakip butas ka lang nya?
Oo. Every relationship na hindi first relationship ay pwede i-frame na panakip butas. It all depends kung ang tinginginan nyo sa isa't isa ay hindi worth keeping sa future. But if you want to tey your best, there is no point thinking about this queation
Is there a chance na magkabalikan sila?
Yes. However, this all depends on kung magiging succesful ka ba makuha ang loob nya at malampasan mo ang lalim ng relasyon nila ng ex nya.
Paano gagawin ng ibang tao na nasa parehong sitwasyon?
Mas marami ang tulad mo na magpapakain sa self doubt. Mahalagang matutunan mo kung sinasayang mo ang happy future dahil sa risk ng temporary pain. Para dumating ka diyan, dapat alam mo rin kung kelan ka dapat bumitaw. Natatakot ka kasi pumasok sa relasyon dahil baka mahirapan kang lumabas. Pag marunong ka na alamin kung kelan ka dapat bumitaw, it will be easy for you to cherish the present.
Possible bang panakip butas ka lang nya?
Oo. Every relationship na hindi first relationship ay pwede i-frame na panakip butas. It all depends kung ang tinginginan nyo sa isa't isa ay hindi worth keeping sa future. But if you want to tey your best, there is no point thinking about this queation
Is there a chance na magkabalikan sila?
Yes. However, this all depends on kung magiging succesful ka ba makuha ang loob nya at malampasan mo ang lalim ng relasyon nila ng ex nya.
Paano gagawin ng ibang tao na nasa parehong sitwasyon?
Mas marami ang tulad mo na magpapakain sa self doubt. Mahalagang matutunan mo kung sinasayang mo ang happy future dahil sa risk ng temporary pain. Para dumating ka diyan, dapat alam mo rin kung kelan ka dapat bumitaw. Natatakot ka kasi pumasok sa relasyon dahil baka mahirapan kang lumabas. Pag marunong ka na alamin kung kelan ka dapat bumitaw, it will be easy for you to cherish the present.
frenchplayer
Eternal Poster
maging magkaibigan nalang muna kayo para walang alangan pag nagkakasama kayo
Life_Exists_Beyond_Death
Fanatic
Update is yun po, were still act like a couple, kum baga po go with the flow ko lang sya lalo madami akong hindi nalalaman about her,
hindi nmn kasi pedeng i compare sa bagay yung girl sir, maaring hindi na ako ung first nya but, kitang kita ko na may chance but hindi ko ma grab, kasi mas gusto ko makilala pa sya ng lubusan, sinasakyan ko lang sya, ni rereciprocate, just for hindi ma oofend, kasi like what i said po last in the comment, BAKA SANAY LANG SYA NA WALA SA TABI NIA YUNG EX nya kaya nasa akin sya,
but theres a thing na pinapatunayan nya sa akin na ako ung Pinipili nya, as a girl? Gagastusan moba ako ng malake? like things na dpt sa sarili ko ako ang gagastos like, foods pag kumakain kami sa labas, fulltank sa motor ko, everythime kami ay may ride, pag nag sabi ako na nagugutom bibilhan nya ako like yeah so feel special, but yeah still holding this feelings kasi mahirap na baka mga ilang months lang ako din ung duguan sa huli, mahirap mang sisi,
HINDI po ako nag aasume sir, ni hindi ko nga po innintay na maging kame e, hinahayaan ko lang sya kung saan sya masaya basta open ako sa time ko sasamahan ko sya pero pag hindi, hindi tlga,
medyu delikads po sa part ko, lalot longterm ungpast nya
"""" Eto siguro mga bagay na tanong mo sa isip mo;
Possible bang panakip butas ka lang nya?
Oo. Every relationship na hindi first relationship ay pwede i-frame na panakip butas. It all depends kung ang tinginginan nyo sa isa't isa ay hindi worth keeping sa future. But if you want to tey your best, there is no point thinking about this queation
Is there a chance na magkabalikan sila?
Yes. However, this all depends on kung magiging succesful ka ba makuha ang loob nya at malampasan mo ang lalim ng relasyon nila ng ex nya. """
Alam kona to sir, ready nako dyan, pero hindi ko naman ipag papalit ang gusto ko lang ngayon sa GUSTO KO TLGA. (which is ung end goal mo muna sa future life ko) with that she support me sa lahat lahat. but hindi padin sapat un para sabhing ako ung pinipili nya sa araw araw
This one, No rush no hassle no pressure.
Hindi pa ba clear yung pag I love you nung girl. Anong assurance lang ba kikilalanin nyo?
Sa POV ko, si ate gurl yung talo dyan. Biruin mo may trauma ka, tapos yung guy na nag-open up ka, may doubt pala sayo.
Kaplok Kaplok
Forum Guru
Tingin ko baliktad ang nPulot mo sa gusto ko sabihin. Ang sinasabi ko lng is, there will always be risks na masasaktan ka. But don't let that stop you to open up for relationships.
And, ang tinutukoy kong temporary ay ung masasaktan ka. Let it happen, that is a part of growing up. This is a learning experience just as important as your education towards a career. Letting yourself be vulnerable is important towards building a good relationship.
papabanana
Elite
andali ng problema, ikaw lang nagpapa kumplikado. tanungin mo agad siya ng "ANO BA TAYO? I don't need assurance but I need clarification para alam ko kung hanggang saan lang ako"
yan lang ang sasabihin mo and then tuloy tuloy na yan.
moving forward din, HAHAHAHAHA siya ba yung natusok mo dun sa latest threads mo ngayon? HAHAHAHA congrats Tatay kana!
yan lang ang sasabihin mo and then tuloy tuloy na yan.
moving forward din, HAHAHAHAHA siya ba yung natusok mo dun sa latest threads mo ngayon? HAHAHAHA congrats Tatay kana!