💕 Dating/Love Paano ba ihandle silent treatment ng mga babae?

Correction:
Women don't do it to protect themselves.
They do it to avoid saying/doing hurtful things, which usually escalate the situation.

Tips:

1. Huwag mong sabayan.
2. Lambingin mo, while figuring out what you may have recently done wrong.
3. It won't help if you refuse to accept you did something wrong.
4. Kahit i-refuse niya ang sweet gestures, which definitely hurts for sure— don't let it stop you.
5. If she explicitly said na she needs space, give it to her... pero dapat continuous effort pa rin even from a distance.

It is important to know na kapag hirap mag-open up sayo ang partner mo, there's a communication problem na ang usual root cause is lack of trust:

Trust na hindi ka basta-basta bibitaw.
Trust na receptive ka sa feedback, even for negative ones.
Trust na you'll believe her and will do something about it for the better.

Hindi dahil kayo na, eh titigil na rin ang panliligaw— ginagawa yan araw-araw.
Sasagwan kayo pareho, araw-araw.
 
De, kasi ganito yan kung bakit nagssilent treatment kami.
Di naman nangyayari yan sa simula. base on my own attitude. Kasi ako, nag ssilent treatment lang ako kapag Paulit ulit nalang yung reason ng misunderstanding namin. Again, hindi to nangyaring silent treatment ko in the 1st, 2nd year ng relationship namin. nangyari nalang to nung 3years na kami until now. Before naman kasi, nakikipagcommunicate ako. Nanjan yung tatanungin ko siya kung anong problema? may problema ba siya sakin? may problema ba tayo?
Yes importante yung Communication kahit pa na lagi kayong magkasama. Pero Nakakasawa din kasi yung pinag uusapan nyo naman lagi yung problema mo sakanya, and yet nauulit at nauulit parin. Dun ako nagstart mag silent treatment. kasi nga nakakasawa magsalita ng paulit ulit.
Tapos kapag wala pang emotional intelligence yung jowa mo, tipong walang alam na nagssilent treatment ka na pala, Mas nakakaasar. Hanggang sa Gusto ko nalang din mag silent quiting. 🥱

Okay Nayan silent treatment
literal noh? 😆
 
De, kasi ganito yan kung bakit nagssilent treatment kami.
Di naman nangyayari yan sa simula. base on my own attitude. Kasi ako, nag ssilent treatment lang ako kapag Paulit ulit nalang yung reason ng misunderstanding namin. Again, hindi to nangyaring silent treatment ko in the 1st, 2nd year ng relationship namin. nangyari nalang to nung 3years na kami until now. Before naman kasi, nakikipagcommunicate ako. Nanjan yung tatanungin ko siya kung anong problema? may problema ba siya sakin? may problema ba tayo?
Yes importante yung Communication kahit pa na lagi kayong magkasama. Pero Nakakasawa din kasi yung pinag uusapan nyo naman lagi yung problema mo sakanya, and yet nauulit at nauulit parin. Dun ako nagstart mag silent treatment. kasi nga nakakasawa magsalita ng paulit ulit.
Tapos kapag wala pang emotional intelligence yung jowa mo, tipong walang alam na nagssilent treatment ka na pala, Mas nakakaasar. Hanggang sa Gusto ko nalang din mag silent quiting. 🥱


literal noh? 😆
Haha paano kapag walang jowa
 

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