[B]aklouuu[/B],
Excuse me po. Sorry kung sumabat ako sa usapan. Kaparehas mo kasi yung issues ng dalawa kong binatang pamangkin na mahihina ang loob sa side ng misis ko. Parehas nabaliw sa kakaisip dahil sa babae - mga schizophrenia cases.
Susmaryosep anak, iwasan mo yang "blaming issue" sa sarili mo at sa iyong buhay. Hindi yan fruitful sa isang nilalang, o kaya sa kahit na sino. Senseless yan. Get a life, eka nga. That problem you are worried about, "being single", is not the only thing that is important. It's just one of the things that can happen to you at the right time if you make it right. Marami pang oras para dyan. Learn to surpass your insecurities first. Mag-ipon ka ng kaibigan muna from both sexes to remove your self doubts as your life progresses - as a normal teenager. Maganda nga marami kang close friends na babae na kaedad mo. Yung hiya sa opposite *** will be in a controlled state. That will lead you to a path of possibilities sa hinahanap mo. Matututo kang mag-communicate freely to various types of persons to improve your confidence, to persons you like to be with, like your pals (barkada), classmates, etc. and the ones you are attracted to, and want to have a relationship. And that's the chance you have to take, whether you fail or not. Lahat ng ginugusto, may proseso para makamit yon. So, act accordingly. If you fail, accept it, analyze and try again. Ganyan naman ang sistema sa buhay. You reap what you sow eka nga. If you remain idle and wait for luck, possibilities are dim, unless swerte ka he he.
Sa palagay ko, malungkot ka lang dahil sa present assessment mo sa iyong sarili, ayon na rin sa mga sagot mo sa post #12. That is good. You know your weaknesses, but start changing your life to overcome that problem.
Tatay na ako, at dumaan din sa ganyang stage during my early days, dahil mahiyain din ako noong una. But it's just a part of my growing-up. Natutunan kong alisin yung takot ng rejection - facing reality and becoming better as I grow older. Natural lang yan.
Though ang mga anak ko ay mga babae at dalaga na, I share my experiences with them in full detail he he, para alam nila rin yung experiences with the opposite *** as well. Wala akong tinago. I give them advices when they start dating, broke up with their BFs, etc. Pati BFs nila, pinapayuhan ko rin para mapalapit sa anak ko he he. Pero kung ayaw na, wala akong magagawa. Like you, you just need the right guidance, and must learn to listen, accept sincerely advices from others rather keep your problems to yourself, as if it ends there. Nasa College ka pa lang and you're still in the age of maturity. Kung sa trabaho, ganyan ka pa rin, you can't survive the competition outside your comfort zone. Paano pa kung magka-pamilya ka na. Be a man! Prove to yourself that you can achieve whatever you want. And lastly, life is full of failures. Everybody experiences it. Yan yung magtuturo sa iyo para maging handa sa kahit anong sitwasyon sa buhay na iyong haharapin - love life, trabaho, pera, seguriad, atbp. Magising ka sa katotohanan iho, kaysa magmuk-mok. Life is good!
PH
wala ka work mate na may kakilalang ganun