💕 Dating/Love Boys pasok .. need your answer po

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Hmmm...well para sa akin wala sya karapatan magalit sign of immaturity yun, dahil hindi mo naman sya pinaasa or ngbigay ng mga signs or signals(according to you poh), then hindi poh lahat ng lalaki tulad nya tulod sah mga babae dependi pa rin sah ginagisnan or ugali nya, at dapat ngpasalamat pah sa iyo, dahil from the start friendship ang pinakita mo sa kanya, at nung inamin nya na niistalk kanya, ang iba ay matatakot agad, pero ikaw you still valued the time naging friends kayo kaya feeling guilty. Pero hindi dapat ka maguilty tama yung ginawa mo..."it's better to be true to someone you value than faking it that you value the person".
 
hmm. interesting,

actually di naman po lahat ganyan. as for myself, oo naganun din ako eh. natamaan ako sa first part ah. ganun pinrangka ako. na friendship lang talaga mabibigay nya. I pause for about 3 seconds yata. tapos sumagot ako. well, "friendship din naman ang hanap ko" and I can wait for the time na di lang friendship ang maibibigay mo. ang mga ganyan kasing bagay reflects on the personality eh. gaya na lang yung tinutukoy mong boy. parang immature naman yata pag ganun approach nya. hinding hindi nya makukuha ang girl pag ganun.
 
Hmmm...well para sa akin wala sya karapatan magalit sign of immaturity yun, dahil hindi mo naman sya pinaasa or ngbigay ng mga signs or signals(according to you poh), then hindi poh lahat ng lalaki tulad nya tulod sah mga babae dependi pa rin sah ginagisnan or ugali nya, at dapat ngpasalamat pah sa iyo, dahil from the start friendship ang pinakita mo sa kanya, at nung inamin nya na niistalk kanya, ang iba ay matatakot agad, pero ikaw you still valued the time naging friends kayo kaya feeling guilty. Pero hindi dapat ka maguilty tama yung ginawa mo..."it's better to be true to someone you value than faking it that you value the person".
yun oh hehe thanks po .
 
hmm. interesting,

actually di naman po lahat ganyan. as for myself, oo naganun din ako eh. natamaan ako sa first part ah. ganun pinrangka ako. na friendship lang talaga mabibigay nya. I pause for about 3 seconds yata. tapos sumagot ako. well, "friendship din naman ang hanap ko" and I can wait for the time na di lang friendship ang maibibigay mo. ang mga ganyan kasing bagay reflects on the personality eh. gaya na lang yung tinutukoy mong boy. parang immature naman yata pag ganun approach nya. hinding hindi nya makukuha ang girl pag ganun.
baka nga siguro .. ewan ko ba dun baka nga di nya lang talaga matanggap hehe
 
Ts! Tama yang ginawa mo, walang mali kasi hindi mo siya kilala at hindi ka niya kilala, pero nung na friend zone siya lumabas ang tunay nyang ugali :)) which means na dapat hindi mo binibigyan ng pansin ang mga ganyang guy. Sa tingin ko masakit talaga na ma friend zone pero kung sisiraan ka niya dahil dun, e alam mo na. Nag expect siya kaya panindigan niya aba, ano siya HAHA.

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Unang una sa lahat di kana naman sanay na makipag usap sa di mo kilala diba? Bat mo siya pinatulan? Dapat sa umpisa palang hindi mo na siya inentertain. Kaso inintertain mo eh siempre. Mas lalong nafafall yan sayo. Habang nagtatagal mas lalong na fafall yan sayo. May mali ka din dun. Oo siempre nagalit siya sayo dahil umasa din siya. Mali niya dun umasa siya sa hindi siya pinaasa. Kaya kung ako sayo hanapin ka na ng The ONE para sayo. Malay mo yung dati na nagkagusto sayo yun pala ang the one mo at mas masakit pa kung napunta ka sa maling tao. Mapagbiro talaga tadhana. No offend po. Thanks.
 
Naku miss. . Pa victim yan. .
My mga babae kasing makukunsenya tpos aamuhin sya tpos bibigay na. .
Buti na lang taba ng utak mo miss hindi ka nabiktima ng pavictim ****boy
 
If I will assume all you said about your social media friend is true, then I'm glad you did not end up with him. It's very immature and egotistic. You have every right to choose who you want to be with, at least in our society. If he did not know that, then it's his fault for making his expectation (be in a relationship with you) that would certainly come true. However, it's not very fair to say it's all his fault unless we know your social network friend's side about you. Why is he that mad about what you had told to him? This is just an assumption here. He probably might not be that mad at you for telling him to be just friend if you made him understand in the first place, that only friendship is the best thing you can offer. This is the very reason why we need to make a fine line between serious relationship and friendship, so we can avoid this kind of conflict.

The wise thing you can do is ignore it. It's fine if you are affected and it's normal to be affected. You will encounter guys like that in the future anyway so why bother. You are probably lucky if you don't encounter one (very rare). If you actually think of it, it's a good thing it happened to you. It's a good lesson, at least, for you to be careful of who you entertain in the future. It's absurd if you assume all guys are like that when you are in this kind of situation. As a woman, you are responsible to determine if you are with a man or a boy. There is a huge difference between them. :)
 
Sapul ako sa friend zone ah... Hahhaha Hindi nya rin ako kinakausap pero gusto ko parin sya I tatry ko paring manligaw sakanya pagkalipas ng ilang bwan o taon
 
sa akin po lahat ng lalake gus2 ng babae syempre :):):)
pero iba iba ang ugali namin:):):):)
kung sa una palang hindi mo sya inaccept edi walang naganap na "friendzone"
peace po hahaha
 
Mula nung naichat ka nya, dapat naging handa sya sa sasabihin mo mareject man or what. Kasi sya yung nagtake risk e . Wag kang maguilty kasi sinabihan mo na naman sya nung una palang dba. Saka sinabi mo naman kung anu yung gusto mo dba . Di naman sa lahat ng pagkakataon lagi kaming nagkakachance sa inyong mga girls, dapat laging handang mareject. Bow.
 
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