💕 Dating/Love I need your help please

[ZanZ]

ayaw ng babae ng good boy kse .. dbest hanap ka rin ng ka work na ma flirt mo kse kung aasa kpa jan wla rin

Nakaka obob, gusto healthy rs pero sila mismo gumagawa ng dahilan para masira. May mali naman ako aminado ako dun pero, instead of fixing sa ibang guy nakipaglaro ng apoy.

 

[sioshooo]

masakit mang tanggapin paps.. CHEATING is a CHOICE kahit anong gawin mo mentality talaga ng babae kapag naka cheat na babalik-balikan niya yung CHEATING.. mas maganda paps tigilan muna and somehow and somewhere merong babae na bagay sayo.. wag mawalan ng pag-asa and dont forget to pray always

 

[ZanZ]

masakit mang tanggapin paps.. CHEATING is a CHOICE kahit anong gawin mo mentality talaga ng babae kapag naka cheat na babalik-balikan niya yung CHEATING.. mas maganda paps tigilan muna and somehow and somewhere merong babae na bagay sayo.. wag mawalan ng pag-asa and dont forget to pray always

I really don't understand why do people have the courage to cheat. Despite giving everything she asked.

 

[V01D_]

always remember street girl ≠ good boy

 

[V01D_]

I really don't understand why do people have the courage to cheat. Despite giving everything she asked.

you dont need to understand naman. kasi choice nila yan. what you need is too let go. di nya desurve yang energy mo .. your too much ideal guy for her

 

[-Reen-]

Cheater is always a cheater
mag move on ka nalang.

 

[C E S S]

She never reciprocate my feelings, she keeps on blaming me na wala daw akong emotional intelligence, when i did is give everything. Sinasalo ko lahat ng mga bagay na nakakapahirap sa kanya, i even sacrifice my career para sa kanya. She keeps on saying na sinacrifice nya lahat para sakin, pero di nya nakikita sinacrifice ko sa kanya. And the worst part is pinakilala ko sya sa lahat ng angkan ko and i even brag about her becoming my future wife. And now she's seeing someone na na para bang wala lang ako sa kanya, ako yung nandun nung binabato sya nang tadhana ako ang tumangap sa kanya, na kahit alam ko ang past nya na di nya sinasabi sakin, tinangap ko sya nang buong buo.

The reason you should let her go is simple, which are non-negotiable in a long-term partner. She cheated, not once, not twice. That alone is a dealbreaker, bro.

If she were fair and mature, she would own her mistakes instead of shifting the blame to you. Gaslight and manipulates you, blame you for things that are actually her fault.

And the scariest part? She probably believes she’s the victim in all this.

 

[ZanZ]

The reason you should let her go is simple, which are non-negotiable in a long-term partner. She cheated, not once, not twice. That alone is a dealbreaker, bro.

If she were fair and mature, she would own her mistakes instead of shifting the blame to you. Gaslight and manipulates you, blame you for things that are actually her fault.

And the scariest part? She probably believes she’s the victim in all this.
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I guess, hindi mo na kailangan ng closure. You’re done apologizing for being too much.

Funny is how she talks to other man stating na she's a victim na all other guys treat her as a garbage, I was like what the heck, gusto nya sya lagi spotlight.

 

[jux]

Sakit baket kaya tayo napupunta sa maling tao? Hahaha natutunan ko di tayo lugi atleast may lesson at alam natin anong pwede i-improve sa next relationship na papasukin natin anyways galing din ako jan mag going 2 months na and yun first feel the pain lang iiyak lang di madali mag heal talaga may times ayos may times hindi relapse bigla tapos ayos ulit yun tama iba divert mo mag ML or games ba, mag gym, wag hahanap ng iba focus sa sarili mahalin ang sarili at lagi ko sinasabi sa sarili ko na di ko yun deserve mas may better pang padating at ang pinaka importante dasal talaga at acceptance yun sa ngayon di na nag rerelapse naaalala pero maiisip na 8080 ko pala tama sila cheater will always be a cheater at wag kana babalik doon improve mo sarili mo pag alam nila na wala ng kanang pake at masaya kana sa buhay don yan babalik nagpaparamdam or pag palpak yung pinalit sayo kaya wag ka pokmaru move forward kana pre kasi kelangan yun mangyari yun lang pre sana mag heal kana para pakyuhan mo na lang yun charot hahaha

 

[ZanZ]

always remember street girl ≠ good boy

I remember this, may sinabi sya sakin about our co-worker na nag cheat daw na for the street daw yung girl. It turns out she's one of it.

 

[ZanZ]

Sakit baket kaya tayo napupunta sa maling tao? Hahaha natutunan ko di tayo lugi atleast may lesson at alam natin anong pwede i-improve sa next relationship na papasukin natin anyways galing din ako jan mag going 2 months na and yun first feel the pain lang iiyak lang di madali mag heal talaga may times ayos may times hindi relapse bigla tapos ayos ulit yun tama iba divert mo mag ML or games ba, mag gym, wag hahanap ng iba focus sa sarili mahalin ang sarili at lagi ko sinasabi sa sarili ko na di ko yun deserve mas may better pang padating at ang pinaka importante dasal talaga at acceptance yun sa ngayon di na nag rerelapse naaalala pero maiisip na **** ko pala tama sila cheater will always be a cheater at wag kana babalik doon improve mo sarili mo pag alam nila na wala ng kanang pake at masaya kana sa buhay don yan babalik nagpaparamdam or pag palpak yung pinalit sayo kaya wag ka pokmaru move forward kana pre kasi kelangan yun mangyari yun lang pre sana mag heal kana para pakyuhan mo na lang yun charot hahaha

I'm slowly regaining my strength na, yes there are times na nag rerelapse , natutulala out of nowhere. Once i get back to work she will not be getting any special treatment since i have a higher position than her, I'll make sure na mahihirapan sya as like other employees. Yes , i know revenge is not the best path, but i was the reason why she's having easy life sa work.

 

[ZanZ]

Cheater is always a cheater
mag move on ka nalang.

I second this motion. Cheater is always a cheater.

 

[xyz-123]

Gini-guiltrip ka niya. Galawang narcissist. Wag ka manghinayang sa ganyang babae.

 

[ZanZ]

Gini-guiltrip ka niya. Galawang narcissist. Wag ka manghinayang sa ganyang babae.

May sinabi pa sya sakin before, I should learn from her daw kasi madami na syang experience tas ako wala. Tngena experience in cheating pala

 

[-Reen-]

I second this motion. Cheater is always a cheater.

magiging ok karin, sa una lang naman masakit yan a few months or a year lalo na pag nakahanap kana ng mas deserve ng love mo, magiging parang basura nalang yang ex mo sa paningin mo.

better din na feel the pain, magalit ka sa kanyan o kaya lahat ng panget sa kanya isipin mo para mas madali maka move on.

 

[ZanZ]

magiging ok karin, sa una lang naman masakit yan a few months or a year lalo na pag nakahanap kana ng mas deserve ng love mo, magiging parang basura nalang yang ex mo sa paningin mo.

better din na feel the pain, magalit ka sa kanyan o kaya lahat ng panget sa kanya isipin mo para mas madali maka move on.

The love is slowly fading na galit na pumapalit.

 

[Odsm26]

Now focus ka lang muna sa sarili mo bro wag kana mang stalk or something kung ka work yaan lang bro pakita muna gagaan at gaganda buhay mona wala siya try to focus your time sa family naman, or sa mga things na di mu nagawa nung kasama mo sya for meron naman siguro. Visit ka sa gym kung natatakot ka mag tanong ka lang mas nakakatakot naman kung lalamunin ka lang ng lugmok at lungkot dian sa kwarto mo labas ka maraming lugar, bagay pa makikita mo dian for sure bro something better will come kaya nangyari yan galingan mo lang.

 

[ZanZ]

Now focus ka lang muna sa sarili mo bro wag kana mang stalk or something kung ka work yaan lang bro pakita muna gagaan at gaganda buhay mona wala siya try to focus your time sa family naman, or sa mga things na di mu nagawa nung kasama mo sya for meron naman siguro. Visit ka sa gym kung natatakot ka mag tanong ka lang mas nakakatakot naman kung lalamunin ka lang ng lugmok at lungkot dian sa kwarto mo labas ka maraming lugar, bagay pa makikita mo dian for sure bro something better will come kaya nangyari yan galingan mo lang.

I'll try to inquire some gym na may coach, thank you so much for this

 

[Iamhandsoap]

move on na bro, and you said twice na siya ng cheat sayo, wag muna ipilit, ikaw lang din masasaktan, ibaling mo nalang sa ibang bagay, hangout with friends travel out of town/country, pero i advice, wag masyado naiinlove, na parang teenage love na parang siya nalang ang babae sa mundo, idk if you are older now..ako ganun ako nung teenager ,pa iyak iyak durog na dog dahil 30's nako wala nakong pakelam sa babae kung magiging kami , kami talaga ganun lang hindi na yung move on move on, sakin ok kung mag asawa or hindi. enjoy lang ang buhay kung may makilala goods lang pero hindi yung nag lulugmuk pag nag hiwalay, next lang ganun lang ako, dapat yun ang mawala part ng ugali mo pag na iinlove, dont too much

Up to Master,

TS: Pag 30s kana, promise pagtatawanan mo lang naging situation mo and kung pano ka nagreact sa naging situation mo. Sa ngayon masakit, understandably. Pero kailangan mo din ielevate yung resilience mo sa bagay na yan. Dahil moving forward, hindi nalang lovelife ang heartbreak mo. There are far more worse moving ahead. Enjoy-in mo lang. As you've mentioned may motor kanaman. Magrides ka master. Ikaw, daan, hangin, kalayaan. Guaranteed, refreshed ka paguwi. Ako nung nanjan sa situation mong yan. Kakanood ko lang ng bold naka move on ako. Hahahaha.

 

[Nokubi Nana]

hanap ka new hobby paps, ganto ginawa ko nung ghinost ako ng katalking stage ko naadik ako sa twice ngayon okay na ako hihiihi takes time talaga

Solid na coping mechanism yan, imbes na pang gastos sa jowa, pang VIP nalang sa concert hahaha.