🔒 Closed Signs of cheating? i'm depressed..

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Salamat, napapangiti ako pag nag baback read ng mga messages, naging light pakiramdam ko. Di lang pala puro free net, prx, ehi, hpi, ha.cking mga members ng phc :) mga love gurus din!

Base in my Experiences and experiences Chad....

Nang galing ako sa madaming relationship..babaero ako, naloko din ako ng previous mga Ex ko..

Now, 1year na kami ng gf ko and planning magpakasal next year...ready ako kahit financial...trust me alam ko gano ka loyal partner ko and alam nya gano ako ka loyal

Ang LOVE namin, habang tumatagal lalong nagiging sweet and nag grow kami sa isat isa..

You know our Secret? JESUS! JESUS! Surrender your life to Jesus...God center relationship...tanggalin mo si Jesus sa relationship, malakas ang atake ng temptations to cheat, mag away, magkasawaan

I know the feeling na prang feeling mo sino ba talaga mag mamahal sayo ng tunay...alam mo yun, kahit pinaka mayayaman gusto makuha to eh...

Ang pagiging Gay or bisexual ay isang weakness na matindi...inallow ni God yung ganyang weakness mo para ipakita yung Power nya sa buhay mo na kaya ka nya baguhin pag sinuko mo buhay mo sakanya at pinapasok mo siya sa puso mo..

Si Jesus na Anak ng Diyos na namatay satin. Tanggapin at isuko mo buhay mo.

Yan pinaka first step kaya nagbago buhay ko ng malaki...kahit mga kaibigan ko..

Meron din ako kahinaan Chad..lahat tayo, na napakahirap labanan..I know the feeling...para yun mas manalig pa tayo kay Jesus..

Wag ka maniwala na wala nagmamahal sayo Chad...si Jesus mahal na mahal ka nya..sa Diyos ka muna mag focus makipag relationship..promise, pati lovelife mo asyos soon.

I'm not an expert sa love..sadyang madami lang ako experiences at pinakita sakin ni Lord power nya sa buhay ko.

Praying for you Chad.
 
Once trust is lost, mahirap na ibalik. Kahit na maayos, mahirap na mag tiwala. Pero, wag mag rush sa decisions. Dapat yang mga ganyang bagay pinag uusapan nyo. Communication is always key. Infidelity is often fueled by lack of proper and quality communication. Once na nawala na yung trust, slippery slope na (sorry kung medyo fallacious, pero reality bites). The only way to fix it if you talk thinks over and check / re-check / double check you commitment. Remember oftentimes we are too familiar of ourselves that we sabotage it, kasi nga akala natin alam na natin lahat (about ourselves). Same goes for relationships. Familiarity often breeds contempt but actually we just need to realign our views. Also try asking questions. What went wrong? Saan ka nagkulang? I'm not telling you to blame yourself but also look into what you might have missed. Try to ditch the 'rose colored glasses' that we often wear when we're in love. Yan kasi nakakaapekto sa decision making natin., Never decide when you're angry, sad, happy, sleepy or hungry. Wait for yourself to calm down. May times na need tayo mag decide whether it will be beneficial to continue or not but sometimes we need to wait it out, patiently. Last but not the least, Pray. :)
 
^ Agree with ts above.
Try mo muna bigyan ng time yung sarili mo para mag-isip.
Good luck sayo ts! Mahahanap at mahahanap mo din ang boylet na para sayo. Naniniwala ako na there's a borta for every beks. Charot!
 
Hiwalayan mo na lang yan. Sobrang halata na nagchecheat sya. Kilos pa lang. Di ko magets yung mga ganyang klase ng tao, hindi na lang makipaghiwalay kung may iba na silang nagugustuhan. Bigla tuloy uminit ulo ko. :/
 
Hiwalayan mo na lang yan. Sobrang halata na nagchecheat sya. Kilos pa lang. Di ko magets yung mga ganyang klase ng tao, hindi na lang makipaghiwalay kung may iba na silang nagugustuhan. Bigla tuloy uminit ulo ko. :/
Nag usap na kami, giving him a second chance, mukang sincere naman pag iyak nya. Kakauwi ko lang galing province so mejo kumalma na din ako at nakapag isip isip. :)
 
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