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People differ considerably in how they process relationships.
One person may analyze messages, conversations, and future possibilities constantly, while another feels equally committed without mentally reviewing everything.
Attachment style, anxiety, personality, uncertainty, and previous experiences can all influence relationship-related thinking.
Frequency of thoughts therefore isn't a direct measurement of love.
Thinking about someone all day can sometimes indicate affection—but it can also indicate uncertainty or anxiety.
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