💕 Dating/Love I confessed to my classmate

[cartiergomora00]

Magandang umaga PHC,
I need some advice po.

2nd year college student po ako and nagkagusto ako sa classmate ko. Una ko siyang nakilala by 2nd week of december this 2025 dahil nalipat ako ng section this 2nd semester. Simula pa lang ng klase napansin ko na siya and I felt attracted by her physical appearance dahil maganda talaga siya, so ayun nakalipas ang isang linggo nagkaroon ako ng problem sa pag access ng link for student portal tapos nasa loob kami ng classroom nun and katabi ko yung mga kakilala ko talaga pero di nila ako natulongan maresolved yung problem ko at dun nangyari yung very first interaction ko with her.. she approached me tho di ko pa siya nilapitan or kinakausap ever and she took my phone para i-solve yung problem ko and she did.. I felt so grateful to her and lalo ako nagka-interest sa kanya.. let's go forward to january 2026 2nd week. eto yung klase namin after ng holidays. nung nagstart na ulit yung klase napapansin ko na ang sarili ko na lagi akong nakatingin sa kanya and di ko alam kung ako lang ba or tinitignan niya din ako, dumaan yung mga araw na nakakasama ko na siya sa goup activity and small interactions na normal lang sa mga mag-classmates tho she's usually the one who initiate.. at habang tumatagal lalo ako nagkakagusto sa kanya until the day before the prelim exam I gathered a little courage to talk to her first and asked her about the exams.. and get friendly to her. it turns out benefitting to both of us naman and I was happy that nakakapag-usap na kami ng normal. then after the exam 1 week past (Feb. 4) I confessed to her over chat dahil I figured that I can't find a private moment in person and nahihiya din ako. sinabi ko sa kanya that I'm starting to like her. and I got rejected and she clearly set the boundaries between us. tho after the confession she also told me na sana wag kami magka-ilangan and I should keep this private from anyone who personally knew us and I agreed with her. to lighten the mood I asked her about the upcoming school events and ended the conversation.

I wasn't actually looking for a relationship before I met her, but she is different for whatever reason.
sa ngayon I'm still hoping that maybe someday na maging kami, wala naman sigurong masama dun pero I understand that there's might be a little chance only.
Mostly I respect her.

yun lang po sana mabigyan nyu po ako ng advice about sa situation ko, thank you!

 

[Veraix]

AYIEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
support!!!!!!!!!!
sana ol pakak

 

[Fierce]

Ano gusto mong advice paps, pano mag move on?

 

[cartiergomora00]

Ano gusto mong advice paps, pano mag move on?

anything po, like if I should move on or still pursue my feelings for her

 

[Hams]

Sa ngayon TS, just do your things lang muna, focus on your studies. Dapat at least sa ganung way diba napapawow mo siya. Malay mo lang naman hahaha siguro kung ako yan iiwas muna ako hahaha

 

[cartiergomora00]

Sa ngayon TS, just do your things lang muna, focus on your studies. Dapat at least sa ganung way diba napapawow mo siya. Malay mo lang naman hahaha siguro kung ako yan iiwas muna ako hahaha

kahit papano, I still let her know what I feel for her

 

[Rojoooooo]

Aral na lang muna TS. Pag di ka trip, di ka trip. Ganon talaga.

 

[Hams]

kahit papano, I still let her know what I feel for her

Oo paps, wala kang pagsisisihan dyan na sinabi mo. Hirap pag di mo tinry at sinabi

 

[cartiergomora00]

Aral na lang muna TS. Pag di ka trip, di ka trip. Ganon talaga.

for the best nadin siguro, working student pa man din ako

 

[Hams]

Update mo lang kami if may mga new updates na. Wish you all the best TS

 

[Conqray]

I accept mo na lang ang rejection. One day kung siya naman ang nag kagusto sayo i reject mo din para ''quits'' na.

 

[cartiergomora00]

Update mo lang kami if may mga new updates na. Wish you all the best TS

thank you po, i'm looking forward to it

 

[cartiergomora00]

I accept mo na lang ang rejection. One day kung siya naman ang nag kagusto sayo i reject mo din para ''quits'' na.

it's not like I'm holding a grudge to her to reject her if that happens. pero thank you padin sa advice

 

[Veraix]

balang araw marerealize din nya yan ang sinayang nya na tamis na pag ibig na ibbigay mo sakanya sana

 

[Fierce]

anything po, like if I should move on or still pursue my feelings for her

Ask yourself what's best for you sa situation mo ngayon. If gusto mo talaga siya then take it slow and focus on building yourself muna and pursue her again sa future. Meron kasi mga tao talaga na maweirdohan pag may nagcoconfess sa kanila especially if di ka talaga ka nila kilila aside from being classmates for like only a month. Meron din na wala talaga na wala silang plano makipag date sayo and okay lang yan, may kaniya kaniya tayong preferences eh. Since na reject ka, mas better if i invest mo time mo in building yourself to be successful especially since college ka pa and working student. Imagine being successful and looking back sa moment na to, matutuwa ka nalang. Pero still, if you feel hurt then thats okay, normal lang yan, take time to let those feelings out kase as rejection hurts talaga

 

[cartiergomora00]

Ask yourself what's best for you sa situation mo ngayon. If gusto mo talaga siya then take it slow and focus on building yourself muna and pursue her again sa future. Meron kasi mga tao talaga na maweirdohan pag may nagcoconfess sa kanila especially if di ka talaga ka nila kilila aside from being classmates for like only a month. Meron din na wala talaga na wala silang plano makipag date sayo and okay lang yan, may kaniya kaniya tayong preferences eh. Since na reject ka, mas better if i invest mo time mo in building yourself to be successful especially since college ka pa and working student. Imagine being successful and looking back sa moment na to, matutuwa ka nalang. Pero still, if you feel hurt then thats okay, normal lang yan, take time to let those feelings out kase as rejection hurts talaga

thank you po, I think this is exactly what I need these times..

 

[cartiergomora00]

I do really like her and you're right I must focus on building myself muna,

 

[cartiergomora00]

thank you po sa lahat ng advice nyu.. it feels great to start the day. If there's anything new, I'll update the topic hehe.

 

[valdog28]

Share qlang, I've been in the situation of the girl before noong nag aaral pa ko back in my college days. I have a guy friend. He was my movie partner since then. We were so close. He will make sure na icocompliment nya ako thru his friends. Nag tataka aq kasi ang bait nya sakin. Then all of a sudden nag karoon xa ng courage to tell me his feelings. Right then I just turn him down. Awkward moments. We graduated. Communications cut. Years have past. We have a chance to reconnect again. We tried or I tried to reconnect with him. I somewhat bring my movie partner back again with a wishful thinking if and only if he will court me again. But to no avail. I was hoping he would try to make a move again kasi noong nireject ko sya I was thinking for my future. Imagine school-bahay lang ang routine ko tapos all of a sudden there would someone will confess to you. The point is, baka yung girl na classmate mo wala pa sa isip nya ung love love na yan. If matyaga ka and makta nya yung effort and consistency mo feeling ko magkakaroon ka ng chance to win her. This is just a girl's perspective. Sana makatulong.

 

[cartiergomora00]

Share qlang, I've been in the situation of the girl before noong nag aaral pa ko back in my college days. I have a guy friend. He was my movie partner since then. We were so close. He will make sure na icocompliment nya ako thru his friends. Nag tataka aq kasi ang bait nya sakin. Then all of a sudden nag karoon xa ng courage to tell me his feelings. Right then I just turn him down. Awkward moments. We graduated. Communications cut. Years have past. We have a chance to reconnect again. We tried or I tried to reconnect with him. I somewhat bring my movie partner back again with a wishful thinking if and only if he will court me again. But to no avail. I was hoping he would try to make a move again kasi noong nireject ko sya I was thinking for my future. Imagine school-bahay lang ang routine ko tapos all of a sudden there would someone will confess to you. The point is, baka yung girl na classmate mo wala pa sa isip nya ung love love na yan. If matyaga ka and makta nya yung effort and consistency mo feeling ko magkakaroon ka ng chance to win her. This is just a girl's perspective. Sana makatulong.

Thank you so much po sa pagshare, it helps me a lot to more understand the situation to her perspective po..