🔒 Closed Awkward na

[Pogue]

It's been 41 days and I still love her. Wala akong chance sa kanya and the worst is classmate ko pa sya. Its heen 41 days since i have confessed to her. 41 days of awkwardness and turned out na di ko na sya kayang makausap. Its not that it isn't easy but i just tend to respect her decision even it hurst so much. Moving on is hard lalo na 1st time ko na feel ito sa kanya.

 

[Silhouette Knight]

Bro wala pang 6 months, normal pa yan, pag lumagpas na ng 6 months wala na yan, move on madami pa jan. goodluck

 

[Diana mercado]

Gano na ba kayo katagal magkakilala bago ka umamin?

 

[Kaplok Kaplok]

Sa pagkakaintindi ko basted ka.. correct me nlng kung mali.

Eto. Isipin mong mabuti kung bakit nararamdaman mo ung awkwardness.
Mapapansin mo hindi logical na nararamdaman mo yan.

1- dead set padin ang mentality mo na maging impressed sya sa personality mo. Despite the rejection you want to be viewed in a positive light. Hindi mo kailangan yan kasi at this point she is just like another classmate. You could just be you.

2- You are trying to view yourself as a "hero-martyr". In this case, self inflicted talaga yung nararamdaman mo. And although sinasabi mo nirerespeto mo desisyon nya, subconciously, you are attempting na maawa sya sayo. Trust me, you dont want that.

Considering this 2 possible reasons, ang pinaka "tama" na gawin, just be you. Maybe dahil sa attraction mo sakanya, you came out "non-genuine" or insincere kaya ka nireject. So work on finding this true "you". Hindi man sya ang maka appreciate nyan, meron iba na ppwede makapansin nyan.

 

[Diana mercado]

May nireject din ako dati eh, akward talaga pag bago pa lng yung rejection pero pag tumagal na, parang di ka na affected kahit makita mo pa sya araw araw