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There is an old saying that first impressions are the most important indicator of whether someone will like us or not. And while that is true- we may be worrying about the wrong things when trying to give others a good impression.
The small, and seemingly insignificant, little things we do can reveal quite a lot about who we are inside. And this isn’t just speculation.
1. The way we roll our toilet paper.
In a survey of 2,000 men and women, the participants were asked how they hang their toilet paper. They were asked if they roll it in the overhand or underhand position. The participants were also asked to complete questionnaires that would analyze how assertive they were in their relationships on a scale of 1-10.
The results of the study found that those who rolled it overhand were more dominant, while those who rolled it underhand had more submissive personalities.
2. Your eating habits.
In a Huffington Post article, experts on food-related behaviors explained that our eating tendencies can tell us a lot about who we truly are. Slow eaters like to have a sense of control and are more appreciative of the little things, while fast eaters are more ambitious and goal-oriented.
Those who are more adventurous with their eating habits enjoy pushing themselves out of their comfort zones, and those who are picky are more neurotic.
3. Your handshake.
In a study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, judges were trained to analyze eight characteristics of a handshake (grip, temperature, dryness, strength, duration, vigor, texture, and eye contact.)
The judges found that participants who had a firm handshake were more likely to describe themselves as E×ρréššive, and extroverted. A loose grip indicates someone is more likely to be shy or neurotic.
4. Whether you bite your nails.
Do you constantly find yourself biting your nails, or picking at yourself? Research suggests that people who bite their nails, pick their skin, or pull their hair are more likely to be perfectionists.
5. Your punctuality.
While you would believe that people who are often late are irresponsible- science doesn’t agree. One study found that people who are chronically late are more likely to be focused on perfection, and find it harder to meet deadlines because they won’t leave their homes until everything is in order.
This doesn’t appear surprising though, because we all know many people who are chronically late- and they are very detail-oriented people.
6. How often you check your phone.
The more often you check your phone, the more likely you are to be emotionally unstable. Research has found that people who stay on their phones are most likely trying to boost their mood through the dopamine hit that follows finding something new or interesting on their device.
7. Eye contact.
Psychologist Adrian Furnham, Ph.D. says that people who are extroverts tend to look more often and for longer during conversation than introverts. Introverts are more likely to glimpse away or to become distracted.
8. Your music taste.
Psychologist David Greenberg wrote a paper about what music reveals in regards to your personality. In his study, he found that people who are more emotionally focused tend to listen to mellow music, while those who were more rational-minded typically listen to intense and complex music.
9. Dog vs. cat people.
One study found that dog people are more energetic and outgoing, whereas cat people are more introverted and sensitive. And as much as I hate to say this (as a dog person), the study also found that cat people tend to be more intelligent.
10. Your handwriting.
A professional psychologist, Kath McKnight, says that people who write in large lettering are more people-oriented than those who write with small lettering. If you write in small lettering, you are likely an introvert.
If you slant your letters, she says, that you are friendly and sentimental. Those who don’t slant are more pragmatic, and slanting to the left shows introspection.
11. How you treat a server.
Have you ever noticed that people who treat servers and waitstaff badly are more likely to be generally rude to others? It’s no wonder that many people prefer to not be around those who are rude to restaurant workers.
Even the CEO of Panera Bread says that he once declined to give someone a job due to how they treated a busboy.
excerpt from Awareness Act
The small, and seemingly insignificant, little things we do can reveal quite a lot about who we are inside. And this isn’t just speculation.
1. The way we roll our toilet paper.
In a survey of 2,000 men and women, the participants were asked how they hang their toilet paper. They were asked if they roll it in the overhand or underhand position. The participants were also asked to complete questionnaires that would analyze how assertive they were in their relationships on a scale of 1-10.
The results of the study found that those who rolled it overhand were more dominant, while those who rolled it underhand had more submissive personalities.
2. Your eating habits.
In a Huffington Post article, experts on food-related behaviors explained that our eating tendencies can tell us a lot about who we truly are. Slow eaters like to have a sense of control and are more appreciative of the little things, while fast eaters are more ambitious and goal-oriented.
Those who are more adventurous with their eating habits enjoy pushing themselves out of their comfort zones, and those who are picky are more neurotic.
3. Your handshake.
In a study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, judges were trained to analyze eight characteristics of a handshake (grip, temperature, dryness, strength, duration, vigor, texture, and eye contact.)
The judges found that participants who had a firm handshake were more likely to describe themselves as E×ρréššive, and extroverted. A loose grip indicates someone is more likely to be shy or neurotic.
4. Whether you bite your nails.
Do you constantly find yourself biting your nails, or picking at yourself? Research suggests that people who bite their nails, pick their skin, or pull their hair are more likely to be perfectionists.
5. Your punctuality.
While you would believe that people who are often late are irresponsible- science doesn’t agree. One study found that people who are chronically late are more likely to be focused on perfection, and find it harder to meet deadlines because they won’t leave their homes until everything is in order.
This doesn’t appear surprising though, because we all know many people who are chronically late- and they are very detail-oriented people.
6. How often you check your phone.
The more often you check your phone, the more likely you are to be emotionally unstable. Research has found that people who stay on their phones are most likely trying to boost their mood through the dopamine hit that follows finding something new or interesting on their device.
7. Eye contact.
Psychologist Adrian Furnham, Ph.D. says that people who are extroverts tend to look more often and for longer during conversation than introverts. Introverts are more likely to glimpse away or to become distracted.
8. Your music taste.
Psychologist David Greenberg wrote a paper about what music reveals in regards to your personality. In his study, he found that people who are more emotionally focused tend to listen to mellow music, while those who were more rational-minded typically listen to intense and complex music.
9. Dog vs. cat people.
One study found that dog people are more energetic and outgoing, whereas cat people are more introverted and sensitive. And as much as I hate to say this (as a dog person), the study also found that cat people tend to be more intelligent.
10. Your handwriting.
A professional psychologist, Kath McKnight, says that people who write in large lettering are more people-oriented than those who write with small lettering. If you write in small lettering, you are likely an introvert.
If you slant your letters, she says, that you are friendly and sentimental. Those who don’t slant are more pragmatic, and slanting to the left shows introspection.
11. How you treat a server.
Have you ever noticed that people who treat servers and waitstaff badly are more likely to be generally rude to others? It’s no wonder that many people prefer to not be around those who are rude to restaurant workers.
Even the CEO of Panera Bread says that he once declined to give someone a job due to how they treated a busboy.
excerpt from Awareness Act
Mahilig lang ako mag explained o self-aware ako sa nangyayari in society at sa culture, sa religion o ano pa man. Cat person ako. Okay lang sa akin ang dog pero mas matimbang sa akin ang cat. Hindi ako katulad sa ibang tao na mahilig mag compare na kung anong better pet na dog o cat raw. Hindi ako ganun.