💕 Dating/Love How to avoid heart break in relationships

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Professora Akira

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1. Not all relationships must lead to marriage. Some relationships are for a reason, others are for a season only few are for a life time. If it doesn't work out don't kill yourself because it was for something. Discover the purpose and move on.

2. Don't give a man or a woman the totality of your heart before giving the totality of your heart to God. Love that person but put God first.

3. Don't get carried away with beauty or money, if that person's inner person cannot keep you, his money or her beauty cannot either.

4. Love is never enough, understanding ,compatibility, wisdom, patience and tolerance are equally important.






~Professora Hakimi Kazumi
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thanks for the tips miss. well received. but here's the thing: it's inevitable. you are never excluded from heartbreak especially if you commit your heart to someone. pseudo-relationship nga nakakasakit eh, actual relationship pa kaya. but hey, if you want to play it safe, why not treat it as a game. i mean dating is a game of analyzing, obsessing, finding the exact formula for the words to say anyway. it's addicting, it's a game of choices and it's ever-changing. and protecting your heart is a huge part of it. it's a self-preservation thing, you see. so, play it cool. put your armor on. always have your one foot out the door. don't expect. don't be a stapler. don't over care. never invest enough to get hurt. don't fall too hard. don't be serious because once you are devoted to the game. you will never be the same.
it's actually easier said than done hahaha. bc no matter how careful/chill you are, there's still a looming possibility of finding yourself crying in your pillow at 3 A.M. so i guess you have to prepare to get kicked the hell out of you by that four letter word (that and heartbreak is a package) and the feeling of having calamansi or grain of salt in your wound should be anticipated (ouch) but keep in mind na even though pain is inevitable, suffering is optional :)
 
thanks for the tips miss. well received. but here's the thing: it's inevitable. you are never excluded from heartbreak especially if you commit your heart to someone. pseudo-relationship nga nakakasakit eh, actual relationship pa kaya. but hey, if you want to play it safe, why not treat it as a game. i mean dating is a game of analyzing, obsessing, finding the exact formula for the words to say anyway. it's addicting, it's a game of choices and it's ever-changing. and protecting your heart is a huge part of it. it's a self-preservation thing, you see. so, play it cool. put your armor on. always have your one foot out the door. don't expect. don't be a stapler. don't over care. never invest enough to get hurt. don't fall too hard. don't be serious because once you are devoted to the game. you will never be the same.
it's actually easier said than done hahaha. bc no matter how careful/chill you are, there's still a looming possibility of finding yourself crying in your pillow at 3 A.M. so i guess you have to prepare to get kicked the hell out of you by that four letter word (that and heartbreak is a package) and the feeling of having calamansi or grain of salt in your wound should be anticipated (ouch) but keep in mind na even though pain is inevitable, suffering is optional :)
Why play a game you know you’re gonna lose already?
 
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