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The Bible has a great deal to say about love. In fact, the Bible says that ā€œlove is of Godā€ and ā€œGod is loveā€ (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.); in other words, love is a fundamental characteristic of who God is. Everything God does is impelled and influenced by His love.

The Bible uses several different words for ā€œloveā€ in the Hebrew and Greek, interchanging them depending on context. Some of these words mean ā€œaffectionate loveā€; others indicate ā€œfriendshipā€; and still others, ā€œ******, sexual love.ā€ There is also a distinct word for the type of love that God displays. In the Greek, this word is agape, and it refers to a benevolent and charitable love that seeks the best for the loved one.

The Bible gives many examples of love: the caring provision of Boaz for Ruth; the deep friendship of David and Jonathan; the poetic, passionate love of Solomon and the Shulamite; the enduring commitment of Hosea to Gomer; the fatherly love of Paul for Timothy and John for the church; and, of course, the sacrificial, saving love of Christ for the elect.

Agape, the benevolent, selfless love that God shows, is mentioned often in the New Testament, including in the ā€œlove chapter,ā€ 1 Corinthians 13. There, love’s characteristics are listed: love is patient and kind; love doesn’t envy, boast, or dishonor others; love is not proud or self-seeking; love is not easily angered, doesn’t keep a record of wrongs, and doesn’t delight in evil; rather, love rejoices with the truth; love always protects, trusts, hopes, and perseveres; love never fails (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.). Of the greatest of God’s gifts, faith, hope, and love, ā€œthe greatest . . . is loveā€ (verse 13).

The Bible says that God was motivated by love to save the world (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.). God’s love is best seen in the sacrifice of Christ on our behalf (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.). And God’s love does not require us to be ā€œworthyā€ to receive it; His love is truly benevolent and gracious: ā€œGod demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for usā€ (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.).

The Bible says that, since true love is part of God’s nature, God is the source of love. He is the initiator of a loving relationship with us. Any love we have for God is simply a response to His sacrificial love for us: ā€œThis is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sinsā€ (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.). Our human understanding of love is flawed, weak, and incomplete, but the more we look at Jesus, the better we understand true love.

The Bible says that God’s love for us in Christ has resulted in our being brought into His family: ā€œSee what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are!ā€ (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.). Just as the father in the parable showed love to his prodigal son (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.), so our Heavenly Father receives us with joy when we come to Him in faith. He makes us ā€œaccepted in the Belovedā€ (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.).

The Bible says that we are to love others the way that God loves us. We are to love the family of God (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.). We are to love our enemies—that is, we are to actively seek what is best for them (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.). Husbands are to love their wives as Christ loves the church (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.). As we show benevolent, selfless love, we reflect God’s love to a lost and dying world. ā€œWe love because he first loved usā€ (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.).

The Bible says that our love for God is related to our obedience of Him: ā€œFor this is the love of God, that we keep his commandments: and his commandments are not burdensomeā€ (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.; cf. You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.). We serve God out of love for Him. And God’s love for us enables us to obey Him freely, without the burden of guilt or the fear of punishment.

You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now. says that ā€œperfect love drives out fearā€ (this is again the word agape). The dismissal of the fear of condemnation is one of the main functions of God’s love. The person without Christ is under judgment and has plenty to fear (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.), but once a person is in Christ, the fear of judgment is gone. Part of understanding the love of God is knowing that God’s judgment fell on Jesus at the cross so we can be spared. Jesus described Himself as the Savior: ā€œGod did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through himā€ (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.). The very next verse reminds us that the only person who must fear judgment is the one who rejects Jesus Christ.

The Bible says that nothing can separate the believer from the love of God in Christ (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.). God’s love does not wax and wane; it is not a fickle, emotional sensation. God’s love for sinners is why Christ died on the cross. God’s love for those who trust in Christ is why He holds them in His hand and promises never to let them go (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.).
 
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