💕 Dating/Love Pano mo ba masasabi ang tunay na love

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dragonball29

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Morning mga lods, hingi lang po ako ng konting advice. Matagal na kami magkarelasyon ng GF ko, lately di ko alam parang nawawala yung love ko sa kanya wla naman ako ibang gusto na babae. Ganon kaya talaga pag matatagal na relasyon parang nagkakasawaan na?Or normal lang ba talaga sa relasyon na ganon ang nararamdaman na parang ayaw muna.
 
Yes its always normal,at a certain point na mag fade ang love ,but hindi naman talaga literally na ang" love" yung nag fade kundi yung interest at preferences duon sa tao ,thus the sparks seems fading and it gets a little boring ,love grows and evolved over time, so you have to make adjustment ,kaya nga may sinasabing let the fire burning to keep the love alive.Habang tumatagal the feeling of limerence decreases and becomes less intense that's why you need to maintain it make the bond strong.You both should be open to fears learn the underlying false beliefs that fuel your fears.This time let your heart open,to new changes,new responsibilities and be there to support each other.You must both work on strenthening your emotional intimacy,create more connection and romance.Learn to persevere and make some necessary sacrifices along the way.Recognize each others uniqueness and always value the relationship you have right now.
 
Yes its always normal,at a certain point na mag fade ang love ,but hindi naman talaga literally na ang" love" yung nag fade kundi yung interest at preferences duon sa tao ,thus the sparks seems fading and it gets a little boring ,love grows and evolved over time,do so you have to make adjustment ,kaya nga may sinasabing let the fire burning to keep the love alive.Habang tumatagal the feeling of limerence decreases and becomes less intense that's why you need to maintain it make the bond strong.You both should be open to fears learn the underlying false beliefs that fuel your fears.This time let your heart open,to new changes,new responsibilities and be there to support each other.You must both work on strenthening your emotional intimacy,create more connection and romance.Learn to persevere and make some necessary sacrifices along the way.Recognize each others uniqueness and always value the relationship you have right now.
Maraming salamat Lods Prof., kaya medyo down ako etong mga nakaraang araw kasi nagdalawang isip ako humingi ng space muna kaso lalake ako eh baka masyado siya masaktan..Pero sa totoo wala naman ako ibang gusto na babae parang gusto ko lang talaga muna tahimik at makapag isip.

Eto pre kung nakakainitindi ka ng bisaya panuorin mo, pero kung hindi pa translate mo nalang sa mga friends mo ☺️
Salamat Lods naka intidi ako konti bisaya.
 
Psychology of love.
The honeymoon phase is an early part of a couple's relationship where everything seems carefree and happy. It usually lasts from six months to two years and can be marked with lots of laughs, intimacy, and fun dates.
Normal lang yan. Merong instances na medyo bawas na ang kilig at sibakan brother. Wag mo itutok jan sa kilig ang perception mo sa love. Sa companionship or taong masasandalan mo ups and downs. Yan naman talaga purpose ng dyowa eh.
 
Kung hndi mo kayang mawala ang mahal mo ng ilang araw, ibig sabihin mahal mo yan, dahil ayaw mo mawala sa piling nya. Pero kung need mo ng space tingin ko kaya mo syang mawala sa piling nya, meaning di mo sya mahal. Iba ang ayaw mo mawala sa piling nya dahil na susundot mo sya, hndi Yun ang ibig ko sabihin.
 
Tunay na pag-ibig na yan kapag tanggap mo na hindi sya perfect. Kapag natatangap mo lahat ng flaws nya.
Salamat Lods sa advice.

Kung hndi mo kayang mawala ang mahal mo ng ilang araw, ibig sabihin mahal mo yan, dahil ayaw mo mawala sa piling nya. Pero kung need mo ng space tingin ko kaya mo syang mawala sa piling nya, meaning di mo sya mahal. Iba ang ayaw mo mawala sa piling nya dahil na susundot mo sya, hndi Yun ang ibig ko sabihin.
Naguluhan ako bigla sa feelings ko. Maraming salamat mga lods. Sa ngayon nagsabi na rin siya need namin pareho nh space. Friends muna kami sa ngayon.
 
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