๐Ÿ’• Dating/Love Nawalan ng papa at iniwan ng ex.

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Mabigat ang pinagdadaanan ko ngayon. It's been 4 months na kinakatok pa rin ako ng past na hindi ko na mababalik. Maraming regrets tulad ng tinaken for granted ko lang yung mga mahahalagang bagay. Narealize ko na nung nawala sila. Last January, na heart attack si papa at pumanaw. Prior sa death ng papa ko, ni let go ko na yung ex ko kasi full of anxities and depress na ako. Willing ako makipagbalikan after nun death ng papa ko at sinabi nya meron na siyang iba. Masakit. Di ko alam ano gagawin ko. Minsan nag grigrief ako kay papa, minsan sa ex ko. I learned from all my mistakes naman. Nagwoworry na ako sa future ko. Di ko na kilala sarili ko. Help guys. Di ko na alam gagawin ko. Natatakot ako baka matalo ako ng utak ko at gumawa ng di maganda.
 
I am sorry for your loss. I will say that I cannot blame you for letting go of your ex. Sometimes we need time to fully adapt ourselves into our feelings and understand them, it might have been better for you to continue your relationship with her so you could've had someone to lean on, but that decision has long been taken.

My advice to you is to explain to your ex why you wanted to break up at that moment of dread and sadness. If she understands, she might offer emotional support for you by being a friend. If however she doesn't, you can talk about how you feel to us here in PHCorner as a sort of open discussion on your feelings and about your future. It would be best if you let go and move on from your ex and start anew.
 
I feel you , Lahat naman ng yan nangyayare pa rin sa kasalukuyan . Isipin mo nalang ng pagsubok lng yan . At di yan ibibigay sayo ng may likha kung di mo kayang gampanan at solusyunan . Take your time to rest muna . Hinga ka ng preskyong hangin . Ilabas mo saloobin mo need mo ng mga tunay na makikinig sayo . if wala nmn wla kang malapitan . Sguro may mga iilan naman dito willing mag laan ng time para payuhan at pkinggan ka :) . Positibo lang men !! lahat ng tao dumadaan sa pagsubok nasasaiyo nayan if magpapadal ka or tatanawin mong isang hamon na maari mong kapulutan ng mga gintong aral at karanasan . Huwag mo ring kakalimutan na sa kahit anong hamon man mayron at mayrong tao paring nagmamahal sayo . :)
Wag mo ng hanapin yung wala . Focus ka sa goals mo . Kung kayo talaga ng ex mo . Kayo talaga . Focus ka muna sa sarili mo mag Invest ka sa ssrili mo at mahalin mo . at lahat ng ninanais mo maabot mo pagdating ng araw โœŠ๐Ÿป . bawasan mo na rin pgpupuyat at pag MML . Mag ehersisyo ka papawis . Hanap at gawa ka ng mga bagay na may kbuluhan then i enjoy mo :)
 
I am sorry for your loss. I will say that I cannot blame you for letting go of your ex. Sometimes we need time to fully adapt ourselves into our feelings and understand them, it might have been better for you to continue your relationship with her so you could've had someone to lean on, but that decision has long been taken.

My advice to you is to explain to your ex why you wanted to break up at that moment of dread and sadness. If she understands, she might offer emotional support for you by being a friend. If however she doesn't, you can talk about how you feel to us here in PHCorner as a sort of open discussion on your feelings and about your future. It would be best if you let go and move on from your ex and start anew.

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I understand you ts. Just hang with life. Go with your dream. Isipin mo nalang na may mga tao parin na umaasa sayo. Humahanga sayo. Wag kang papatalo sa problema. Pagsubok lang yan. Darating din ang panahon na matatanggap mo na rin ang mga nangyari.
 
I am sorry for your loss. I will say that I cannot blame you for letting go of your ex. Sometimes we need time to fully adapt ourselves into our feelings and understand them, it might have been better for you to continue your relationship with her so you could've had someone to lean on, but that decision has long been taken.

My advice to you is to explain to your ex why you wanted to break up at that moment of dread and sadness. If she understands, she might offer emotional support for you by being a friend. If however she doesn't, you can talk about how you feel to us here in PHCorner as a sort of open discussion on your feelings and about your future. It would be best if you let go and move on from your ex and start anew.

Salamat po. Napakacompassionate niyo po. Mahirap patawarin yung sarili ko honestly at minsan tinatanong ko sa mundo bakit sa akin nangyari to. Pray for me po. I need mental strength talaga.
 
I feel you , Lahat naman ng yan nangyayare pa rin sa kasalukuyan . Isipin mo nalang ng pagsubok lng yan . At di yan ibibigay sayo ng may likha kung di mo kayang gampanan at solusyunan . Take your time to rest muna . Hinga ka ng preskyong hangin . Ilabas mo saloobin mo need mo ng mga tunay na makikinig sayo . if wala nmn wla kang malapitan . Sguro may mga iilan naman dito willing mag laan ng time para payuhan at pkinggan ka :) . Positibo lang men !! lahat ng tao dumadaan sa pagsubok nasasaiyo nayan if magpapadal ka or tatanawin mong isang hamon na maari mong kapulutan ng mga gintong aral at karanasan . Huwag mo ring kakalimutan na sa kahit anong hamon man mayron at mayrong tao paring nagmamahal sayo . :)
Wag mo ng hanapin yung wala . Focus ka sa goals mo . Kung kayo talaga ng ex mo . Kayo talaga . Focus ka muna sa sarili mo mag Invest ka sa ssrili mo at mahalin mo . at lahat ng ninanais mo maabot mo pagdating ng araw โœŠ๐Ÿป . bawasan mo na rin pgpupuyat at pag MML . Mag ehersisyo ka papawis . Hanap at gawa ka ng mga bagay na may kbuluhan then i enjoy mo :)
Salamat ng marami po. Susundin ko po payo niyo. Nakakainis lang na sa akin pa to nangyari. Double grief kumbaga. Graduating student pa naman ako(college) at sayang wala silang dalawa. Masakit.
 
Sorry for your loss pero just let go and move on ,wala ding forever ,
 
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