🕯️ Traditions What Does It Mean to ‘Honor Your Father and Mother’?

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The Bible’s answer
The commandment to “honor your father and your mother” appears often in the Bible. (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.) It involves four key actions.

1. Appreciate them. You honor your father and mother when you are thankful for all they have done for you. You can show your appreciation by valuing their guidance. (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.) The Bible encourages you to view your parents as your “glory,” that is, to be proud of them.—You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now..
2. Accept their authority. Especially while you are young, you honor your father and mother when you recognize the authority God has given them. You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now. tells young ones: “Be obedient to your parents in everything, for this is well-pleasing to the Lord.” Even young Jesus willingly obeyed his parents.—You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now..
3. Treat them with respect. (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.) This often involves what you say and how you say it. True, some parents at times act in ways that make it hard to respect them. Even then, children can honor their parents by avoiding disrespectful speech and actions. (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.) The Bible teaches that speaking abusively of one’s father or mother is a serious offense.—You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.
4. Provide for them. When your parents get old, they may need practical support. You can honor them by trying your best to make sure that they have what they need. (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.) For instance, shortly before he died, Jesus arranged for the care of his mother.—You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now..
   
   
   
   

Misconceptions about honoring one’s father and mother
Misconception: To honor your father and mother, you must let them control your marriage.
Fact: The Bible teaches that the marriage bond takes priority over other family relationships. You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now. says: “A man will leave his father and his mother and he will stick to his wife.” (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.) Of course, married couples can benefit from the advice of their parents or in-laws. (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.) However, a couple may rightly decide to set boundaries limiting the involvement of You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now. in their marriage.—You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now..
Misconception: Your father and mother have ultimate authority.
Fact: Although God gave parents authority within the family, all human authority has limits—it never overrules God’s authority. For instance, when a high court ordered Jesus’ disciples to disobey God, they replied: “We must obey God as ruler rather than men.” (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.) Likewise, children obey their parents “in union with the Lord,” that is, in all things that do not conflict with God’s laws.—You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now..
Misconception: Honoring your father and mother requires you to follow their religious beliefs.
Fact: The Bible encourages us to test what we are being taught to see whether You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.. (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.) An individual who does so may eventually choose a faith that differs from that of his parents. The Bible mentions a number of faithful servants of God who did not follow the religion of their parents, including Abraham, Ruth, and the apostle Paul.—You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now..
Misconception: To honor your father and mother, you must share in traditional rites of ancestor worship.
Fact: The Bible says: “It is Jehovah your God you must worship, and it is to him alone you must render sacred service.” (You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.) A person who worships his ancestors is displeasing to God. Moreover, the Bible teaches that “the You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now. at all.” They are not aware of any homage rendered to them; neither can they help or harm the living.—You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now..