Deleted po! Natauhan na ako sa advice niya!
if she/he keeps saying "don't change me, because you loved me for what I am" then you should let her/him go. everyone wants to be changed into a better version of themselves. especially when the advice came from the one they love.
let that person go. you deserve someone better. if he/she does the thing you don't want many times. as you said "paulit ulit" then he/she doesn't value you & your words. kailangan paba ipamukha sayo na "WALA AKONG PAKE SA SINASABI MO, KAYA GAGAWIN KO ULIT?"![]()
at the end, ikaw pa rin mag dedecide on what you're gonna do, people will give advice, but its not there life, its yours, your decision will shape you and your relationship.
Whatever your choice, you have to live with it.

hays bakit kaya.