
Physical attractiveness influences dating, but studies across cultures consistently find that traits related to kindness and dependability are highly valued in long-term partners.
People may prioritize different characteristics depending on whether they're considering a brief attraction or a serious relationship.
This helps explain why someone who attracts enormous attention immediately isn't necessarily the person others ultimately choose for long-term commitment.
Dating appeal and long-term partner appeal overlap, but they aren't identical.
Being desirable for five minutes and being desirable for five years can involve different qualities.
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