I feel guilty for buying something for me

What you are feeling may not be guilt but rather regret or panghihinayang. And it's OK. Normal yan lalo na kung you are worried that sooner or later ay baka may pangangailangan ka. But if you say guilt talaga yan, given that someone says "sana ginastos mo na lang para sa ganito, ganyan", wag mo na lang silang pansinin.
 
What you are feeling may not be guilt but rather regret or panghihinayang. And it's OK. Normal yan lalo na kung you are worried that sooner or later ay baka may pangangailangan ka. But if you say guilt talaga yan, given that someone says "sana ginastos mo na lang para sa ganito, ganyan", wag mo na lang silang pansinin.
I see, nanghihinayang nga siguro ako. Thank you
 
I see, nanghihinayang nga siguro ako. Thank you
Normal naman yan na maramdaman after buying something. Ang hindi normal ay yung hindi yan pag-isipan sa susunod. If you feel na nanghihinayang ka now, next time na bibili ka, regardless of what it is, pag-isipan mong mabuti kung "kailangan" ba talaga or baka naman "gusto mo" lang. Kumbaga, thing of NEEDS versus WANTS. Kasi kung nanghihinayang ka, it means you just took a high risk of being broke over having a headphone. But again, it's normal.
 
Normal naman yan na maramdaman after buying something. Ang hindi normal ay yung hindi yan pag-isipan sa susunod. If you feel na nanghihinayang ka now, next time na bibili ka, regardless of what it is, pag-isipan mong mabuti kung "kailangan" ba talaga or baka naman "gusto mo" lang. Kumbaga, thing of NEEDS versus WANTS. Kasi kung nanghihinayang ka, it means you just took a high risk of being broke over having a headphone. But again, it's normal.
I completely agree with you. Thanks again
 
you could be thinking:
  • dapat itinulong ko na lang 'yung pera sa family/friends ko
  • dapat 'yung mas mura na lang
  • dapat dinagdagan ko pa ng konti 'yung budget para mas maganda nabili ko
  • dapat itinabi ko na lang for emergency/rainy day
lilipas rin 'yan, lalo na kung nagagamit at napakikinabangan mo 'yung binili mo. di ko alam ang estado mo sa ngayon, pero maraming beses pang mangyayari ito lalo na pag may mga anak ka na. may mga bagay kang bibilihin/ibibigay sa kanila na makikita mong di masyadong napakikinabangan.

in any case, i'm probably the last person to say anything in this situation. back in april, i bought two headphones in a span of 2-1/2 weeks. na-guilty ba ako? no. i use them both in alternate weeks. hehehe nagsawa na kasi ako sa kababasa at kapapanood sa youtube ng mga lintik na review. i'm a test guy by profession, and having both allowed me to do that.
 
you could be thinking:
  • dapat itinulong ko na lang 'yung pera sa family/friends ko
  • dapat 'yung mas mura na lang
  • dapat dinagdagan ko pa ng konti 'yung budget para mas maganda nabili ko
  • dapat itinabi ko na lang for emergency/rainy day
lilipas rin 'yan, lalo na kung nagagamit at napakikinabangan mo 'yung binili mo. di ko alam ang estado mo sa ngayon, pero maraming beses pang mangyayari ito lalo na pag may mga anak ka na. may mga bagay kang bibilihin/ibibigay sa kanila na makikita mong di masyadong napakikinabangan.

in any case, i'm probably the last person to say anything in this situation. back in april, i bought two headphones in a span of 2-1/2 weeks. na-guilty ba ako? no. i use them both in alternate weeks. hehehe nagsawa na kasi ako sa kababasa at kapapanood sa youtube ng mga lintik na review. i'm a test guy by profession, and having both allowed me to do that.
Mapapakinabangan ko naman po sya, especially sa mga online classes. Madalas po kasi kaming walang f2f and yung dating headphone is hindi maganda yung mic nya. Madalas rin kami nagrerecord ng reporting kaya useful yung mic na bago and quality
 
Mapapakinabangan ko naman po sya, especially sa mga online classes. Madalas po kasi kaming walang f2f and yung dating headphone is hindi maganda yung mic nya. Madalas rin kami nagrerecord ng reporting kaya useful yung mic na bago and quality
sounds good. it basically comes down to whether or not you get your money's worth. sulit ba ang ibinayad mo? tulad ng nabanggit mo, nakapagdulot ito ng improvement sa use case mo. the more you use it, the more value you get out of it.
 
isipin mo na lang investment din siya sa comfort and experience mo. basta hindi ka naman nagkulang sa important bills or responsibilities, dasurv mo yan. enjoyin mo na lang headphones mo, kasi minsan kailangan din natin i-reward sarili natin para hindi puro grind lang.
 

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