💕 Dating/Love RED FLAG?

[kiiro22]

Hi, I've been thinking of myself as a walking red flag
I even introduce my red flags to every person I meet personally or online
Most of them gets turned off by the fact na I was from a long term relationship I usually say 6 years (even though it was only 5 years)
Next is I kinda blew my savings after quitting my stable job basically I'm broke af I do have ways on earning money but it's not the same as before even though I'm aiming on getting back sa pag build ng career it's kinda pretty hard rn.
Third Maarte pa ko sa girls pag mag self - care I do exercise and have a morning and night routine.
and other red flags pa like my weird hobbies (MANHWA and stuff)

Anyways I met a girl na even with those red flags still wants to be with me, am I just lucky or color blind lang sya help.

 

[Kaplok Kaplok]

I disagree. Hindi dahil may long term relationship ka, red flag ka na.

I think this is what is happening. Tuwing papasok ka sa relationship may mga expectations ka na binabase mo sa past mo. Eto ang kinocommunocate mo as you actively share about your past. No one wants that burden on the get-go.

Kaya mahalaga ang makamove on ka muna bago ka mag relasyon. Para hindi ka maging emotional liability dun sa bago mong karelasyon. Namnamin mo ung bago for who they are, not how they compare to your ex.

 

[GoatPhomator666]

Self-pity na malala yan.

 

[nitro7]

ikaw naglagay ng red flag sa sarili mo, e.

so you met a girl that you like (tama ba?), and she doesn't get put off by the sh*t that's likely to be mainly in your head.
basically, she thinks your salvageable. you can be recovered. the challenge is on you. sink or swim. your choice is to either keep wallowing in self-degradation, or start picking it up with someone who believes in you as your inspiration.

 

[Pre_11314]

don't prove yourself that you're a red flag. ikaw lang nagsasabi nyan. at hindi din weird yung hobbies mo, mga gusto mo yan eh. and just be honest.
pwede ka rin magopen nyan sa gf mo. sure ako matutulungan ka nya.

 

[acer005]

Mukhang hindi talaga red flags ang mga traits mo—baka hindi lang para sa lahat. Pero kung tanggap ka ng taong ‘to, baka hindi siya color blind—baka siya lang ang nakakakita ng totoong halaga mo.