PHGood day po sa lahat!!
Gusto ko lang po sanang makuha ko insights and opinions niyo mga Sir and Madam regarding my problem.
Gusto ko sana mag HongKong kami ni misis kaso may problema and here's some history. In the year 2014, my partner worked as a Domestic Helper sa Hong Kong in which she had stayed for about 3 years and that she was with her sister-in-law.
Her SIL (sister-in-law) was mainly responsible for her recruitment as a DH there sa HongKong. I was then the house "houseband" since I wasn't accepted po sa application ko sa Taiwan, mainly taking care of our then 2yr old kid.
Then 2 years had passed before us with no complications up until her SIL got caught up in a scam there, leading to her eventual downfall. She got debts piled up back at home since her salary cannot cover her family's needs so she have resorted po sa loan sharks in Hong Kong. So sinabi sakin ni misis about her SIL's condition onto which she (her SIL) begged my partner to be her co-maker/guarantor in 50k php loan there from a loan shark. I insisted not to do it but she insisted on pushing thru because you know, she is family daw, in her POV, and that she really doesn't listen to me quite back then due to, you know, typical apex thing especially when you are not the breadwinner.
The next year, her SIL decided to go back home, burned by the pressure of life and the fact that she was not earning and that her earnings were back then just cycling thru paying debts and the responsibility of sending her family financial support. (This is a typical situation in HK where a lot of DH tend to run from their debt obligations from loan sharks and get away with it by going home). But the burden of debts now has fallen on top of partner's shoulder. You know, if sharks cannot find the spider's head, they will go for its limbs. But this was just days before I told her to go home.
The same year 2017, I passed the CSC and got a permanent position job in a government office here in MM which offers decent compensation and amazing benefits. From there I told my partner to go home na po especially I wanted her to finish her studies and me shouldering all her and my kid's needs. So she went home.
But the Loan Sharks didn't stopped bothering her. And even hired some pinoys to just contact her, threatening her with a lawsuit. Galit pa nga po ako sakanya noon kasi pati ako eh nilagay nia sa emergency contact onto which pati ako minumura na ng mga collectors. Kaso ako pang patolero at sanay sa trashtalking nakausap nila
But it all stopped on mid 2018 up until now 2025. And it has already been 6 years since all of that happened.
As of now she has graduated and both passed CSC and LET exams. I also have saved some money. Ive been to Japan recently and now I wanna go experience Hong Kong.
Question ko po mga boss eh pwede kaya kami magtour dun sa HK wihout having any problems?
Asking lang baka may same problem as me. Thank you in advance!!
Gusto ko lang po sanang makuha ko insights and opinions niyo mga Sir and Madam regarding my problem.
Gusto ko sana mag HongKong kami ni misis kaso may problema and here's some history. In the year 2014, my partner worked as a Domestic Helper sa Hong Kong in which she had stayed for about 3 years and that she was with her sister-in-law.
Her SIL (sister-in-law) was mainly responsible for her recruitment as a DH there sa HongKong. I was then the house "houseband" since I wasn't accepted po sa application ko sa Taiwan, mainly taking care of our then 2yr old kid.
Then 2 years had passed before us with no complications up until her SIL got caught up in a scam there, leading to her eventual downfall. She got debts piled up back at home since her salary cannot cover her family's needs so she have resorted po sa loan sharks in Hong Kong. So sinabi sakin ni misis about her SIL's condition onto which she (her SIL) begged my partner to be her co-maker/guarantor in 50k php loan there from a loan shark. I insisted not to do it but she insisted on pushing thru because you know, she is family daw, in her POV, and that she really doesn't listen to me quite back then due to, you know, typical apex thing especially when you are not the breadwinner.
The next year, her SIL decided to go back home, burned by the pressure of life and the fact that she was not earning and that her earnings were back then just cycling thru paying debts and the responsibility of sending her family financial support. (This is a typical situation in HK where a lot of DH tend to run from their debt obligations from loan sharks and get away with it by going home). But the burden of debts now has fallen on top of partner's shoulder. You know, if sharks cannot find the spider's head, they will go for its limbs. But this was just days before I told her to go home.
The same year 2017, I passed the CSC and got a permanent position job in a government office here in MM which offers decent compensation and amazing benefits. From there I told my partner to go home na po especially I wanted her to finish her studies and me shouldering all her and my kid's needs. So she went home.
But the Loan Sharks didn't stopped bothering her. And even hired some pinoys to just contact her, threatening her with a lawsuit. Galit pa nga po ako sakanya noon kasi pati ako eh nilagay nia sa emergency contact onto which pati ako minumura na ng mga collectors. Kaso ako pang patolero at sanay sa trashtalking nakausap nila
But it all stopped on mid 2018 up until now 2025. And it has already been 6 years since all of that happened.
As of now she has graduated and both passed CSC and LET exams. I also have saved some money. Ive been to Japan recently and now I wanna go experience Hong Kong.
Question ko po mga boss eh pwede kaya kami magtour dun sa HK wihout having any problems?
Asking lang baka may same problem as me. Thank you in advance!!
