💕 Dating/Love Sumpa ng 3 years

[kiiro22]

Totoo ba yung sumpa ng 3 years?
2nd relationship ko na kasi to na umabot ng 3 years tapos gusto na makipag hiwalay saken ng jowa ko.
Mostly gawa ng incompatibility, medyo mag kasalungat mga views namen sa buhay.

ano sa tingin nyo?

 

[jum0ng22]

wag ka maniwala dyan.

 

[kiiro22]

wag ka maniwala dyan.

di den ako naniniwala non boss, pero parang usually pag 3 years na tsaka nag kakahiwalay

 

[_gHe]

incompatibiLity???
umabot kayo ng 3years tapos incompatibiLity??
pero base on my experience, may sumpa taLaga ang 3years reLationship,..
they caLLed it 3 years Curse (3years Course)
pero wag pa apekto, if kaya pang ayusin, ayusin,..
accept the difference,..
accept the imperfection of both sides,..
accept who you are,..
stay happy,..

 

[Poks17]

Di ako naniniwala jan lods. Road to 5years na nga kami ni jowa kahet parang aso't pusa

 

[paulosakuragi]

madalas ganito..dalawa sa naging karelasyon ko nasa 3rd year na rin kami nong magkahiwalay, at puro foreigner pinalit sakin, natataon lang siguro

 

[PHC- Naksu]

keep holding on every situation no reason to be affected in spite openly talk by heart

 

[Kaplok Kaplok]

Half true.
3 years kasi siguro (7 yrs sa marriage) ang max na tinitiis ng mga tao pag nasa stagnant relationship sila.

Lack of growth.
Lack of development.
Lack of maturity.

Marami din nmn kasi satin nagrerelasyon lng pra lng may jowa. Ung may tigasalo ng mga urge mo, physical or emotional. Ung pra lng hindi ka makantyawan na single ka padin. Pero we miss the point n kaya tayo nagrerelasyon is to have someone to grow with, mentally, emotionally and financially.
Nakakakilig man isipin ung concept nung kanta na "grow old with you" but in reality nakakatakot tumanda sa loob ng isang stagnant na relationship. Tapos aalagaan mo ung matandang walang silbi na partner mo.

Haba ng sinabi ko, but for short. Hindi totoo na may sumpa. Pag nangyari sayo yan, dahil yan nagtitiis k lng pala o ikaw ung pinagtitiisan. One or both knows na may kulang pero takot lng kayo sabihin ung totoo at mabansagang "hindi marunong makuntento".

 

[apotoxin4869]

I personally do not believe this. Pero minsan mapapaisip ka na lang talaga eh. My first relationship ended at 5 years, and my 2nd and 3rd ended in 3 years. Yan kasi raw yung mga jinxed na years sa relationships, sabi nila ah. 3, 5, 7, 10 - yan daw. Pero siyempre there are so many other reasons why relationships fail; hindi talaga siya sumpa or what eh. It probably wasn't meant to be in the first place pero binigyan lang kayo ng leeway to try it out kasi it might work or something. Just my opinion.