💕 Dating/Love Is there such thing as rent free

[kouichii]

Background:
Male 45 Girl 27 both Pinoys
Hes annùlléd and Im single.
Known each other for two months online= 1 month online 1 month in person.

Umuwi sya from ibang bansa to meet me and he will be leaving this June to go back sa Dubai.
He has a condo here sa PH and gave me his keys.
Now he's okay with me renting it for free if ever mag return to office ako.

We are not yet exclusive/in a relationship, nasa getting to know/dating stage pa lang.

Should I stay sa place nia once umalis na sya?

I asked him what are his expectations once I stay there and he did not respond back basta okay lang daw dun ako magstay sa condo nya since wala din titira dun.

 

[Arjienx]

complicated. for me not stay. ok na sguro yung na hold mo yung keys.
pra walang issue sa kung ano. bka gnawa nya na kasi interested sya sayo. assurance.

 

[itomori08kiminonawa]

naku mahirap yan. better stay away. tama si pareng Arjien jan, atleast nasayo yung susi anytime pwede mo ibalik.

 

[kouichii]

naku mahirap yan. better stay away. tama si pareng Arjien jan, atleast nasayo yung susi anytime pwede mo ibalik.

Ano po ung cons if ever?

 

[itomori08kiminonawa]

Ano po ung cons if ever?

It's a bait. dapat magaling ka sa background checking. If 40 na wala pang asawa, pwede. Pero pag may asawa na, he will make you fall in love hanggang sa hindi mo na lang siya kaya pakawalan. Yun lang nakikita ko, pero kung single naman at husband material naman siya para sayo go for it. Pero sa dating keep on eyeing on his personality, hindi niyan ilalatag lahat until maging kayo na. so better watch out.

 

[kouichii]

It's a bait. dapat magaling ka sa background checking. If 40 na wala pang asawa, pwede. Pero pag may asawa na, he will make you fall in love hanggang sa hindi mo na lang siya kaya pakawalan. Yun lang nakikita ko, pero kung single naman at husband material naman siya para sayo go for it. Pero sa dating keep on eyeing on his personality, hindi niyan ilalatag lahat until maging kayo na. so better watch out.

Ah so parang kinukuha loob ko saka niya ireveal ung ugali niya. Somehow he show signs of being strict nung andun ako kasama sya.

 

[Arjienx]

better know him well or seek approval sa parents nya. kasi di natin alam if may current relationship yan.

 

[kouichii]

better know him well or seek approval sa parents nya. kasi di natin alam if may current relationship yan.

Pinagtataka ko lang na nsa sakin keys ng condo nia kahit dating pa lang kami and wala na sya sa Pinas.

 

[Arjienx]

Pinagtataka ko lang na nsa sakin keys ng condo nia kahit dating pa lang kami and wala na sya sa Pinas.

ikaw mag decision if tuloy yung relation nyo or hindi. observe mo muna. wish you all goodluck.

 

[kouichii]

ikaw mag decision if tuloy yung relation nyo or hindi. observe mo muna. wish you all goodluck.

Thank you!!

 

[Dejz00]

diba ba parang isang way yun pang manipulation?
sabihin mo OP parentahan nalang sayang extra income.

 

[kouichii]

diba ba parang isang way yun pang manipulation?
sabihin mo OP parentahan nalang sayang extra income.

Manipulation?

 

[JokeUnavailbe]

iniwan nya sayo ang susi para may babalikan syang katulad mo, dependi nlng sayo kung mag stay ka or hindi. may lalaki talaga na hindi showy sa feelings nila lalo na sa ganyang edad, mas gugustuhin nlng nyan na yung siya ang mamahalin dahil sa dami na cgurong karanasan sa love, mas mabuti pa na siya nlng mag adjust kung mamahalin mo sya or hindi,

 

[tricksterz97]

It's a trap

 

[kouichii]

It's a trap

Haha hays

 

[Chizue Mizokuchi]

both of you is in the getting to know stage yet living the same space and let you hold the key sa tinitirhan na condo she might be testing your loyalty and honesty ....or maybe she is building trust between you and her...but better na if bumalik na sya sa ibang bansa for another year mag secure ka nlng nang other place mo kumbaga bisitahin mo nlng place nya para linis linisan atlest per month... kasi if you stay there di natin alam baka dumating ang sumbatan na pinatira ka nya nang libre sa place nya ...complicated sya and payo ko lang ha... if magbigay sya cash sayo na big amounts secure mo lang into bank wag mo lang galawin baka kasi magkakwentahan nang ginastos nya sayo or sakali mang di kayo magkatuloyan maibalik mo sakanya lahat para wala na syang habol na maipamukha sayo...ganyan kasi case nang uncle ko

 

[kouichii]

both of you is in the getting to know stage yet living the same space and let you hold the key sa tinitirhan na condo she might be testing your loyalty and honesty ....or maybe she is building trust between you and her...but better na if bumalik na sya sa ibang bansa for another year mag secure ka nlng nang other place mo kumbaga bisitahin mo nlng place nya para linis linisan atlest per month... kasi if you stay there di natin alam baka dumating ang sumbatan na pinatira ka nya nang libre sa place nya ...complicated sya and payo ko lang ha... if magbigay sya cash sayo na big amounts secure mo lang into bank wag mo lang galawin baka kasi magkakwentahan nang ginastos nya sayo or sakali mang di kayo magkatuloyan maibalik mo sakanya lahat para wala na syang habol na maipamukha sayo...ganyan kasi case nang uncle ko

Hi po thank you sa detailed reply. Babae po ako Ano po ngyari sa uncle niyo?

 

[Chizue Mizokuchi]

Hi po thank you sa detailed reply. Babae po ako Ano po ngyari sa uncle niyo?

kuya kasi si nang mama ko and maski kami nag bigay din nang idea kay mother sa right words and advise regardig with the same matter binalik nya lahat nang binigay nong babae though may ginastos sakany pero nag agree both side na babayaran yun unti unti nang uncle ko bago sya umalis sa puder nong babae iniwan nya lahat nang bigay sakanya from tshirts to pants even underwears in good terms din nmn kami sa girl pero nalaman kasi namin na may real family pala sya and shes using fake name for almost 3yrs nang live in nila and partida di rin naging sila

lalo pa at di mo palubusamg kilala yung guy... kaya habang maaga palang sis be careful with your decisions and keep safe

 

[loki616]

baka need nya lang may tao dun.

 

[kouichii]

kuya kasi si nang mama ko and maski kami nag bigay din nang idea kay mother sa right words and advise regardig with the same matter binalik nya lahat nang binigay nong babae though may ginastos sakany pero nag agree both side na babayaran yun unti unti nang uncle ko bago sya umalis sa puder nong babae iniwan nya lahat nang bigay sakanya from tshirts to pants even underwears in good terms din nmn kami sa girl pero nalaman kasi namin na may real family pala sya and shes using fake name for almost 3yrs nang live in nila and partida di rin naging sila

lalo pa at di mo palubusamg kilala yung guy... kaya habang maaga palang sis be careful with your decisions and keep safe

Ttwa ako pati brief binalik Totoo na baka isumbat sakin din kaya need talaga mapagusapan and di naman ako talaga magstay don ng matagal.
May tendency nga na manumbat sya kasi nung hiniwalayan sya ng ex gf nia, sinumbat nia sa ex gf nia ung mga nabiling damit and bags pati na din kotse.

baka need nya lang may tao dun.

Oo taga linis or care taker. Kahit once a week linis okay na.