💕 Dating/Love How to Give an Effective Apology: "The Do's and Don'ts of Saying You're Sorry"

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Professora Akira

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🔹State what you did wrong​

State your Offense and acknowledge your wrong doings.To do this, you must see things from the aggrieved person’s point of view and recognize the pain that you caused them

🔹Own it​

It involves taking responsibility for your transgression and offering insight into why you behaved badly.Take your time to explain everything precisely.Owning misdeed fix most relationships.

🔹Don't engage in "kitchen sinking"​

Yes,we all know its hard to apologize but then we should avoid bringing up everything that person has ever done to cause you hurt.Avoid escalating minor conflicts into a huge ordeal by recalling countless times.

🔹Apologize in person, not in writing​

Verbal apology is more powerful than just writing those words.It is much nice to see how sincere they are by their facial E×ρréššions.

🔹 Don't add "but" at the end​

The most sincere and beautifully articulated apology can be sabotaged with one simple three-letter word: "but."It's just another way of excusing yourself,avoid using unthoughtless" but".

🔹Ask for forgiveness​

This empowers the other person for giving them time to speak up and respond whether or not they'r absolved you.








excerpt from Paired
 
I say I'm sorry way too much I know.
Afraid that's just a way with me.
Sorry that who I am apologies for who you see

Sorry, I can't just put the word away,
It comes with so much ease.
Sorry that sometimes sorry is all I say
Sorry always finds its way.

The word escapes my tongue.
Sorry is first in line.
Behind my tongue are more words
But they're trapped in my mind.

A jumbled mess of proper words
But sorry is all chime.
In time I hope I'll put the word to rest
have it suppressed, condensed, instead
Saying it all the time, not E×ρréššing my mind

Sorry that this word is what I choose
To use, to recuse what I want to say.
Sorry leaps from my lips before
Any other words find their way.

Dismayed, my body concaves, ashamed
That's all I allow myself to convey
Unchanged, your patience
I choose to wait.

No demand to ask or understand
Why sorry is my mouth’s only phrase.
Encased in love and trust,
I see, you know what I'd like to say.

Reassured, inside, behind the mess
Of a broken past, sorry is silenced and put away.

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