💕 Dating/Love Love o Responsibility?

[smokre]

Ano ang pipiliin mo?

Love? na kailangan mo talikuran ang resposibilidad mo para lang sa taong mahal/ o dahil hindi mo mahal yung taong nangangailangan sayo?

O

Responsibilidad? na kailangan mong mag stay kahit hindi mona sya mahal dahil may responsibilidad kang kailangan tugunan.

tanong lang naman.

 

[Asooo]

Sangkap yan sa pag ibig kaya dapat mag kasama yan kapag nag mahal ka kahit na may masasakripisyo na iba, ang alam ko lang dapat handa ka sa mga kapalit ng bawat galaw mo

 

[Professora Akira]

One can always choose to do things with love or responsibility. When there is ‘love for the sake of responsibility’, then it becomes fake. Instead, if we love responsibly or do our responsibilities with full of love, then it gives nothing but happiness and fulfillment.

 

[Deleted member 1954679]

naghahanap ka ba ng iba TS? HAHAHA parang ganyan yata ang sitwasyon neto e

 

[smokre]

naghahanap ka ba ng iba TS? HAHAHA parang ganyan yata ang sitwasyon neto e

hindi oi nag tatanong lang ako hahah

 

[Solofly]

Kung may anak na ako. Kahit na kumbaga wala na yung feelings na nanay ng anak ko saken pero di naman nakikipag hiwalay.
I would rather stay on relationship alang alang sa anak ko.
Mahirap rin kase kung puro pairalin ang feelings or "love" sometimes. Minsan kase ang love nayan eh leads you to selfish decision. Kaya nga maraming mga broken fam ngayon dahil pinapairal nila yung feelings nila.
Kung ala akong responsibility sa babae syempre uunahin ko sarili ko.

 

[plhbg1]

walang pwedeng ma-ikaso dun sa love issues eh pero sa responsibility meron kaya alamz na kung anu pipiliin hehe

 

[dummy01]

If worse comes to worst, responsibility is the choice. Love with no responsibilities attached is simply impulsive pleasure. It is selfish, destructive, immature, unstainable, and meaningless. Responsibility without love is not good looking on the surface level but it could at least provide meaning and wisdom to the person who tackles the hardship of voluntary shouldering the responsibility, whatever that is. The ideal is always like this: love responsibly (or, at least, live responsibly), so that you don't fall to activities that are expedient or overwhelm yourselves to responsibilities you could not possibly commit.