🔒 Closed Ghosting

[iamfuturestructuralengr]

What if hindi lang ung taong gustong gusto mo ang bigla nalng hindi nagparamdam? Pano kung pati mga friends mo or tinuring mong kaibigan mawawala na din sayo? hays

 

[Professora Akira]

I think you need self boundaries first ,when they started ghosting you or just give them time limit,this might be harsh but it will surely give you some closure and might help to restore lost feelings of control.Avoid blaming yourself as well because you don't have any context clues why they left you hanging ,magiging cause lang yan ng emotional harm.Don't ever treat yourself with substance abuse like drugs or ******* to numb the pain you've been dealing with rather spend time with your family.They're the one who knows you well.you can seek trust and companion from them.This might help ghosting situation into a positive perspective.

 

[MrWiseMan]

ang friend , gf/bf seasonal lang ang interest nyan... may days na hanap ka may days na mawawala talaga... just wait pero tanggapin na minsan malimutan ka nila sa ibang mga panahon ,at dapat ready kadin na tanggapin na talagang mawawala sila , dahil may chance talaga yun...

ang never na mawawala sayo is yong parents ,brothers or sisters mo and specialy yung sarili mo...
chinup !ang mawalan at magkaroon its a sign na your still have chance to be happy...

 

[Saturn]

Nakakawalang gana yung palaging ako nalang yung unang nagre-reach out. Kaya ngayon ang binibigyan ko nalang ng oras e yung mga taong nanganga-musta kahit na wala silang kailangan mula sakin

 

[iamfuturestructuralengr]

Nakakawalang gana yung palaging ako nalang yung unang nagre-reach out. Kaya ngayon ang binibigyan ko nalang ng oras e yung mga taong nanganga-musta kahit na wala silang kailangan mula sakin

Totoo yan kahit pa sabihin natin na lahat nagiging busy na minsan dyan mo talaga malalaman kung sino ung may pake sa kanila pero kase ung bigla nlng di ka kakausapin grabe un..

ang friend , gf/bf seasonal lang ang interest nyan... may days na hanap ka may days na mawawala talaga... just wait pero tanggapin na minsan malimutan ka nila sa ibang mga panahon ,at dapat ready kadin na tanggapin na talagang mawawala sila , dahil may chance talaga yun...

ang never na mawawala sayo is yong parents ,brothers or sisters mo and specialy yung sarili mo...
chinup !ang mawalan at magkaroon its a sign na your still have chance to be happy...

may be ito na rin ung paraan ng mundo o ni lord na para mas mag grow ako as a person.. bigyan ko ng oras yung sarili. kaya sguro nya nilalayo muna ung mga taong un

I think you need self boundaries first ,when they started ghosting you or just give them time limit,this might be harsh but it will surely give you some closure and might help to restore lost feelings of control.Avoid blaming yourself as well because you don't have any context clues why they left you hanging ,magiging cause lang yan ng emotional harm.Don't ever treat yourself with substance abuse like drugs or ******* to numb the pain you've been dealing with rather spend time with your family.They're the one who knows you well.you can seek trust and companion from them.This might help ghosting situation into a positive perspective.

Wow grabe salamat sa advice.. any way prof po ba talaga kayo?

 

[Maria Posada]

Nakakawalang gana yung palaging ako nalang yung unang nagre-reach out. Kaya ngayon ang binibigyan ko nalang ng oras e yung mga taong nanganga-musta kahit na wala silang kailangan mula sakin

i feel you.. nakakalungkot lang, we always find time for them, pero not the other way around..

 

[iamfuturestructuralengr]

i feel you.. nakakalungkot lang, we always find time for them, pero not the other way around..

Wala eh ganun talaga..

 

[Deleted member 622421]

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