💕 Dating/Love Do you believe on/in Destiny?

[World_Peace]

Hindi po ako expert sa dreams eh. Pero since galing na rin po sa'yo na mahilig kang makipag-interact sa babae, then baka nga po ganyan nangyayari. I think sarili lang din natin makakaalam kung there's something weird or different sa experience natin. Pero kung makita mo yang tao na yan in real life, possible din siguro haha. Pero di natin masasabi kung friendship or love ang magiging connection mo sa kanya.

what if i already found her? tinawag ko na siyang destiny nagbased ako sa dreams ko

 

[Katjul120]

what if i already found her? tinawag ko na siyang destiny nagbased ako sa dreams ko

You mean nakita mo siya right after mapanaginipan mo or dati mo na siyang nakikita bago mo napanaginipan?

 

[Deleted member 801784]

May destiny na nabanggit sa bible

 

[Deleted member 801784]

But not specific na "Destiny" na word

 

[Solofly]

Hindi namin naisip na comfortable kami sa isa't isa kasi nafeel namin yon right at that moment na nagkita kami. Do you think it's normal na nagkita lang kayo at di pa nakapag-uusap, comfortable na kayo sa isa't isa?

Oo naman may ganyan. Walang destiny unless you push yourself on that situation na mangyari yan.Nagiging comfortable kayo ayon nga may love at first sight pero its a human trait na pakikipag socialize and make friends.Sinubukan nyo to the next level eh naging kayo na. May conquer jan. Diba you take actions na magiging kayo Diba yan naman ang first encounter mo sa mga friends mo. Ang first meet mo i think meron kaming same vibe. Then you take actions nagiging kaibigan kayo.
So destiny doesnt exist. All of your actions and decisions had outcome.Its just promoting delusional mindset. Kaya ngayon maraming broken fam. Nag sta stay sa toxic relationship.
Kung logic ang pagbabasehan. Pero feeling parin nah. Feelings are illogical sometimes.

 

[World_Peace]

You mean nakita mo siya right after mapanaginipan mo or dati mo na siyang nakikita bago mo napanaginipan?

hindi pa kasi dati ayaw niya ipakita mukha niya sakin umiiyak siya ng ganito

after niyan nagkakilala na kami thru online, nung panahon na willing ko na siya igive up ayaw niya akong iwan, i think that was kind of a girl i was looking for a long time, kaya nag hahabol pa din ako dahil dun, nililigawan ko siya online hehe, dont know if siya nga future can still change i cant judge it hehe

 

[Katjul120]

Oo naman may ganyan. Walang destiny unless you push yourself on that situation na mangyari yan.Nagiging comfortable kayo ayon nga may love at first sight pero its a human trait na pakikipag socialize and make friends.Sinubukan nyo to the next level eh naging kayo na. May conquer jan. Diba you take actions na magiging kayo Diba yan naman ang first encounter mo sa mga friends mo. Ang first meet mo i think meron kaming same vibe. Then you take actions nagiging kaibigan kayo.
So destiny doesnt exist. All of your actions and decisions had outcome.Its just promoting delusional mindset. Kaya ngayon maraming broken fam. Nag sta stay sa toxic relationship.
Kung logic ang pagbabasehan. Pero feeling parin nah. Feelings are illogical sometimes.

Ah. Now I get your point po. I guess hindi tayo pareho ng interpretation ng destiny. Parang for you, destiny is fixed in nature, na nakaset na talaga siya, antayin mo na lang kung kailan darating ganun.
From my standpoint, yes, I do believe there's such thing as destiny for the main reason that we have the ability and free will to decide sa kung anong i-present sa'tin ng buhay. Kumbaga, para sa'kin, it's a result of our collective actions and decisions. We are the "prime doer". In terms of career, I don't perceive destiny as something I just think of or anticipated, without doing something. It's a work on progress, I would say. In terms of love, we get to choose and decide the people na pumapasok sa buhay natin, yes I agree. And I think, it's a result of our own decision. The bottomline, destiny is something we make.

 

[Katjul120]

hindi pa kasi dati ayaw niya ipakita mukha niya sakin umiiyak siya ng ganito
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after niyan nagkakilala na kami thru online, nung panahon na willing ko na siya igive up ayaw niya akong iwan, i think that was kind of a girl i was looking for a long time, kaya nag hahabol pa din ako dahil dun, nililigawan ko siya online hehe, dont know if siya nga future can still change i cant judge it hehe

Ahh. We make our own destiny, kuya. If you think na siya nga yung hinahanap mo, edi go for it. But of course, don't let our feelings control us alone. Kung marami ng rason para bumitaw, learn to let go. But for now, I'm happy that you found someone you can share your happiness with.

 

[World_Peace]

Ahh. We make our own destiny, kuya. If you think na siya nga yung hinahanap mo, edi go for it. But of course, don't let our feelings control us alone. Kung marami ng rason para bumitaw, learn to let go. But for now, I'm happy that you found someone you can share your happiness with.

Thank you po ate!

 

[Solofly]

Ah. Now I get your point po. I guess hindi tayo pareho ng interpretation ng destiny. Parang for you, destiny is fixed in nature, na nakaset na talaga siya, antayin mo na lang kung kailan darating ganun.
From my standpoint, yes, I do believe there's such thing as destiny for the main reason that we have the ability and free will to decide sa kung anong i-present sa'tin ng buhay. Kumbaga, para sa'kin, it's a result of our collective actions and decisions. We are the "prime doer". In terms of career, I don't perceive destiny as something I just think of or anticipated, without doing something. It's a work on progress, I would say. In terms of love, we get to choose and decide the people na pumapasok sa buhay natin, yes I agree. And I think, it's a result of our own decision. The bottomline, destiny is something we make.

Tumpak ka jan. Kase i figure out. Sa mga failed relationship ko. I think siguro maging realistic ako and kumbaga tatanggalin ko yung mga expectations ko. Yung masaya lang, vibes kung dadating sa point may closure na mag ne next level na mga ganun. Walang toxic at smooth lang. Set boundary. May trabaho rin sya may trabaho rin ako. Every saturday movies o food trip. Kumbaga masaya lang hehe. Intimacy pa minsan minsan. Hehehe.
Respect and loyalty lang. Kumbaga meron kang bestfriend na dadamayan ka sa lungkot at masaya. Kung meron naman time na feelings change and its a cold hard truth. I just let her go.

 

[JabolWock]

i dont know kasi madami nagkakagusto sakin

baka nm po knukulam kna hahaha

 

[World_Peace]

baka nm po knukulam kna hahaha

totoo po ba yan?

 

[JabolWock]

totoo po ba yan?

hndi ko po alam pero sabi mo kasi wla ka nman gnagawa tapos nakikita mo lagi tson taon baka may nanggayuma pala sau hndi pala kulam hahaha

 

[Vermouth the Gin]

Destiny is the product of your choice
paps

 

[World_Peace]

hndi ko po alam pero sabi mo kasi wla ka nman gnagawa tapos nakikita mo lagi tson taon baka may nanggayuma pala sau hndi pala kulam hahaha

ah pero totoo ba ang gayuma?para kasing impossible na sa panahon ngayon na maniwala pa sa ganyan

 

[JabolWock]

ah pero totoo ba ang gayuma?para kasing impossible na sa panahon ngayon na maniwala pa sa ganyan

hahaha hndi po

 

[World_Peace]

hahaha hndi po

akala ko talaga totoo muntik nako maniwala boss

 

[kestrel21]

Providence. See reformed theology

 

[World_Peace]

Providence. See reformed theology

what do you mean?

 

[yvi927]

Nope their is no such a destiny or the one. It takes 2 na mag work relationship. Its just di lang mag dadating ang tao na para sayo.
Men are pursuers.
Women choose their mate.
Includes compatability, expectations sa isat isa and figure it out pano mag work at maging healthy ang relationship.
Maari i de define mo the one iyon pero kung i a analyze mo is nagiging compatible kayo sa isat isa. Or nagustuhan mo yung babae iyon dahil binibigyan ka ng vibe. O nagustuhan mo yung lalake na iyon dahil sa future magiging mabuting ama sya. Whatever reasons.
Kung may destiny or the one eh dapat wala ng ligawan? Or hindi na ako na re reject ng girls na nililigawan ko. I figure it out na we have needs and vinavalue each other sa relationship. Maari yung babaeng iyon gusto ng pogi or babaeng iyon ay gusto ng mabait, hardworking man etc.
Love is selfish sa totoo lang.

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