💕 Dating/Love Is this normal?

[PHC- Kevin]

I wanted to have a girlfriend but i dont want to. Di ko alam kung bakit e, siguro natuto na rin ako sa past ko. We've been together for 3 years and sumaktong 3rd anniv. Namin nung nagkahiwalay kami. Bata pa kami siguro masyado nung panahon na yun. I'm 17 and she's 15. Gusto ko magkagirlfriend pero ayaw ko ng commitment parang ganun. Kase ang iniisip ko ano ipapangdate ko ipapangpasyal namin or pangkain sa labas. Turning 21 na ako and meron rin akong long time crush kahit na di na kami nakakapagkita may paghanga parin ako sakanya. Normal lang ba na ganito ako? I mean, inuuna kong isipin yung mga bagay na di ko kayang ibigay pag nanligaw at nagka girlfriend ako.

Open for any comments po thanks!

 

[Watashiwabakadesu]

nope trust me if you continue that kind of thinking you will greatly regret it later...
Kung meron kang gusto ligawan mo na wag na mag dahilan..
gaya nga ng sabi nila kung gusto may paraan kung ayaw ang daming dahilan...
nasa age kana na dapat meron kanang partner in life..
wag ka mag pa oto sa iba gaya ko then it's to late to look back..
ganyan din ako dati hanggang tumanda na akong binata hahay..

 

[PHC- Kevin]

Salamat po sa advice!

 

[Daneee]

I'm female, 23 yrs old and no jowa since birth. Tho my long time crush rin ako pero i still never reached out to him lol

Being 23 for me is still so young. Plano ko pag isipan ang love life maybe in my 30s. Siguro by that time kilalang kilala ko na talaga sarili ko, kung ano ang gusto ko at ano ang hindi.

Some peple find the love of their life during their 40s, even by 50s. Pero kung wala paren talaga ako nahanap, okey lang. Sabi nga nila hindi mo kailangan love life para maging buo ka.

And lastly

 

[Togman]

Nice! Again with the great advice, Daneash am impressed. Usually, sense like this only comes with experience TS, look no further, you have the answer you need right here! It's worth repeating that the two most important choices you'll make in your like are your partner and your career. Mess either one up and your life will also be messed up. Way to go Daneash keep it up!

 

[Daneee]

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Thank you so much for your kind words lods Togman

Even tho i never had a boyfriend, I've already gone thru painful friendship breakups & family breakups. Its why when i want to find my partner, i want to lessen the chances of commiting the same mistakes & heartaches by learning more about life & knowing myself better.